Experiences With A Taurian Male
Taurian males. . .smoldering, sexy and attentive. But can it really be that good? Well, based on my personal experiences of 13 years spent with one, I can say yes - and no. I guess it just depends on how "progressed" your Taurian male is and how submissive he may be to the stimulation of his five senses.
So before I begin, I'd like to state that there are many, many Taurian males out there that are wonderful husbands, lovers and friends. That being said, I'm sure that you are now guessing where I'm headed with this. . Yep - I'm delving into the "dark side" of the Taurian nature as many of my personal observations over the years centered around such activity. So my apologies to all you wonderful Taurian males out there.
Taurians, as many already know, are all about the stimulation of the five senses. When these stimulations are of a positive nature, they love music, good food, the outdoors, sensitive touch and all things sensually related.
However, should a Taurian, males in particular here, fall prey to the stimulation of his darker senses - lookout. It's a folly of gluttony, abuse and self indulgence. Taurian males can become steeped in drugs, alcohol, casual sex, gambling and the like. He may cultivate relationships, both sexual and platonic, outside of a committed relationship as a Plan B of sorts.
Taurians are passive by nature and, being ruled by the planet Venus, that of love, romance and money, have a natural tendency to draw people to them rather than seeking people and relationships out. Taurians are all about security, I should know - I AM one. Nothing pleases a Taurian, male or female, more than stability, a cushy living situation, and security, both financial and emotional.
Due to that nature, a Taurian generally will not act aggressively towards people or situations that secretly they wish to attach themselves to. Rather, a Taurian will somehow manage to draw those people or relationships to them. And our Taurian males in particular are very good at doing so. Sextrology refers to the Taurian males motto being one of "I WILL". . . .have you in the palm of my hand.
And for Taurian males - that's it in a nutshell. Strong yet quiet, masculine yet sensitive, sexual yet unaggressive, these guys have mastered the technique. And once he's caved to stimulation of his darker senses this becomes one of his favorite pastimes. He'll spend many a day and hours of time cultivating "situations" that he will ultimately reap rewards from at a later date. Thus making all his time and effort worth it.
He'll place himself into environments where these situations are more likely to happen and he'll simply sit back and wait. He'll show up time and time again and do this repeatedly until he finally achieves the rapport he's been attempting to build. All the while, he'll be acting coy and clueless in an attempt to disarm you of any agenda you may think he has. You see, for our Taurian males, that IS his agenda. . . .to disarm you (especially women) and make you think he has no agenda.
He wants you to relax and feel comfortable around him, not threatened. And in order to do this he realizes that he must repeatedly make his presence known time and time again so that those around him drop their guard. And once your comfortable and your walls are down, that's when the real work begins. His plan is now in motion and it'll brew at such a slow and steady pace that you'll be none-the-wiser.
Here's a tidbit from a Taurian male profile base on Sextrology that I previously wrote regarding this very subject:
"He operates behind the scenes, always keeping his intentions guarded and others in a constant state of guessing. He is a man of reaction - not one of action. He forces others to play their hand before revealing his own, all the while, he's working his angle behind the scenes. By doing so, our male bull leads a rather stress-free life.
He hangs back in situations, being the master of all he surveys. This ones like a kid in the candy store of life. A huge appetite for pleasure, but lacking the inability to exert abstinence or self-discipline, he's all about the stimulation of the five senses. A come hither kind of guy. His lifelong goal is to be idolized, idolized, idolized - and worshipped by others.
Therefore, he plays a rather submissive role in life and in relationships. If you ask the Taurian male where he'd like to go for dinner that night, most likely, his response will be, "Wherever you'd like to go." He's not much of a decision maker and, honestly, doesn't prefer to wear the pants in a love relationship. This behavior gets the male bull farther in life and without much effort having to be placed into it.
He finds that he usually doesn't have to fight for that which he wants. He waits, he watches, he evaluates. He's a strategist. Once his goals are securable and within his reach - he charges straight for them. He's not a risk taker by nature. He plans and plots, waiting for his desires to ultimately reveal themselves to him. Our male bull tends to build his own small harem of worshippers in life.
He may pal around with younger individuals that look up to him in some way. He may develop a harem of female admirers on the side, of whom he will always refer to as only "friends. A dating pool of sorts, from which he can pull from at his leisure, if need be, or if his preferred stable relationship should happen to sour in his eyes. And by souring, I mean - if you stop worshipping him and the idol that he envisions himself to be."
So ladies, if you find yourself involved with, or gunning for, a Taurian male you may find one of the nicest, most attentive and sexual guys on the planet - or you might find yourself trapped in a sea of confusion and self doubt. So when dealing with a Taurian male it might pay to ask questions and study body language.
And most important of all. . . .find out where's he's spending most of his time. That will give you a glimpse into his motives and the situations that he's attempting to attach himself to.
For additional reading:
That Passive Taurian Male
The Beautiful Bull Girl
And last but not least, this post is part of the Group Writing Project at Seduction Central. Please visit the site for a complete list of articles that were submitted to the Group Writing Project where astrologer, Jeffrey Kishner, requested fellow bloggers to write a post about astrology and sex, love, romance or relationships.
I am sure that there will be many interesting and valuable astrological experiences and insights submitted. Thanks again, Jeffrey!
I'd like to hear from women who have had experiences with Taurian males. Where they positive or negative? And can you relate to any of this?








10 comments:
oh my god...so true!!! i married 2 Taurus men and dated a few others and a former best friend was Taurus...for some reason, i just could not get away from them (i am a Leo woman)..Leos and Taurus's DO NOT GET ALONG...if it is kept on a friendship basis, it works fine...there is initial attraction, intense attraction at that..i targeted them both (my husbands) and found out later that they targeted me!!! LOL..i totally agree with your article...they scheme and plot for what they want..i just couldnt take being in a marriage with them...they want TOTAL control (you know Leos are the Kings/Queens of the Jungle) and total worship...Leo women are meant to be worshipped not the other way around...Taurus men are great providers, and pretty much if you appeal to their senses (especially sex) they are yours for the taking but is it worth the trouble?? no....i also thought he was loyal but thats not true..i had to chuckle when i read that they have Plan B's with women and that is so true...sad and true...thanks for your great article..i love Taurus men..trust me...but ill love them from afar for now...give me an Aquarius anytime!!!!
I am a virgo... and i am currently interested in this Taurus male. I enjoy his company and i find that him being hardworking and goal-oriented is veryyy sexy. We click. On multiple occasions i have found my taurus male expressing to me "how comfortable" he is in my presence. He also texts me at random times just to say hi and to see what i'm doing. And when he sees me on the days i work he never fails to ask me how my day went. But like other comments that ive read, woman have found themselves confused with their taurus men. My taurus male has told me he wasnt ready for a relationship. So i took it as just that and automatically distanced myself. Even tho i still have very strong feelings for him i respected him and gave him space. What guy likes a girl who is jealous that he sees other girls when they are single. I have no place to say anything. And thats totally fine...I didnt talk to him for a couple weeks until he suddenly started hitting me up again. With time and patience... he will come around if he truly cares.Thats what i believe. My laidback approach has worked wonders so far. Even tho he isnt "officially" mine i've def. enjoyed just the whole "getting to know you" game. It def. still is a working progess tho... we have no commitment to one another and we never talked about being with one another either... but we act differently. We take our time to get aquainted and understand one another.& the Attraction is there NO DOUBT...but yet we have never done the deed. Keeps the excitement going! and besides... good things come to those who wait. but bottomline.... i'm a virgo who doesnt mind working at getting what she wants. and what i want is this taurus. and i will get him. All i have to do is think he has the upperhand in the situation... and just go with the flow... Being patient pays off!!!
he'll be mine... sooner or later...eventually... but either way... he'll be mine. lol
Virgo, you and I have alot in common.. a Taurian Male, who plays games.lol
I'm an Aries.. yes OH MY GOD!!.. how did I end up with a Taurus male?
Well truth be told I have to best friends and they are both Taures "The BULL". Iam in the same situation as Virgo, but have been for the past 6 months, he says almost a year but I didnt give him the time of day for the first couple months. He has me at a distance, although I need my freedom there are many times when I just want to throw in the towel and move on.. Thats what I do move on to GUY #2, or #3.. I cant help being so impatient.. Funny thing is that this Taurus male is more then worth my time, and patientice has been something that I am slowly learning. He is infact the sweetest, most attentive, sexy, funny, and STRONG man I have ever met. Most of all he can handle my temperments, for example, I got really angry at him and for about 20 minutes was yelling at him while he was holding me and smiling.. what is that??.. I threatened to through him out of my apartment and he smilingly replied that he would still like me..lol.. he is SO MUCH.. but SO WORTH IT!!.. With my best friend "The female Taurus" by myside, I THINK I can wait to see where this goes... (if not there is always...) LOL
Oh my lord...Says this Libra female. I am in a very tricky situation indeed with my Taurean man who i happen to have fallen for...i am also in betwixed my own very tricky situation...Guess..? All and above which has been mentioned about a regular Turean man relationship type with a female really strikes a chord with me, but if you can imagine that ten fold, you might understand where i'm coming from...it's very very difficult and almost obsessional..(he's turned me into a predator)and i am not normally this type...I am always in control and have my head screwed on. He has got me bad and the whole come hither attitude drives me crazy...i know he loves me..he wants me all to himself..(that's a taurean man for you!) but him wanting me calling the shots when i really know he wants to tighten the reigns once he has me..(if) (probably)what is this....someone help, going insane...he is irrestistible, ps. fate played a massive part in this...almost lottery stakes..
I totally agree with these Taurus men posts. I'M IN LOVE WITH ONE!! Holy &*!@, I'm so in trouble... lol. The truth is is that he really gets me and I get him. I'm glad I've gotten to read up more on this sign so now I can figure out this guy some more (5 years in the making). Thanks everyone.
I am also a Virgo interested in a Taurus male I've just met on a singles site. I never understood the attraction I had for him but have learned why since. We email but sometimes it takes days for him to get back- I sense his attraction for me although he has admitted he is seeing someone else who may or may not be a serious relationship- I still can't tell. In any case, I intend to be patient-from all I've read, that is the key. My feelings for this guy are incredible- I hope I'm not wasting my time should he decide to continue with his other woman- I live somewhere else and will be relocating in the same area. He has been very expressive when he told me he was a one woman man. I wasn't sure why he told me that at the time but maybe just trying to tell me moreabout himself. This will be tough!
It's funny the way our personality is being elaborated in this forum. ....yes that's right, I am a Taurus male, and i have been carefully reading everything being said about "Us" and the way we seem to respond to things. All of these personal description do fit us perfectly. We do like to play a lot of games to attract the person we like, but that is simply because we value love and affection differently and think of an approach in a more intimate level because we don't like to be bordered. We generally tend to express our selves through artistic mediums very well ex... I draw, paint, play music, write poetry, abstract art, architecture etc. We also are very attracted to very beautiful things i.e, nature, landscapes, pretty women. We are generally quiet but sometimes we don't even know we are like that unless told by someone else. Yes we do plan a lot. we like to hang out with mates who understand what's meaningful to us. I for example prefer a woman who is much smarter than I am, who has goals in life, independent, and who loves by caring as well. We are very crazy about our security.
where are the geminis?
I recently fell in love with a Taurean guy who, like me, is shall I say, taken already. I definitely agree will all the stuff you said about taureans especially about that thing that they play coy and their philosophy of "I will..." And I fell for it really hard. I tried to stop myself from liking him but he is just so likeable! Now he's overseas but I'm still hooked on him!
Anyway, I remembered I have this list I did of the things I hate about him. I hated him probably because...well you know. I think this list tells much of all the experiences I have with this taurean.
More Than 10 Things I Hate About Him
1. He is such a flirt and a sweet-talker. I don't know if he is aware that he is a flirt, but he is. Though he thinks he is just being nice to his lady friends with his gentlemanly, open-the-door-for-the-girl thing (just like what he also did to a lady boss of ours), his being a flirt is sometimes taken the wrong way. I should know, I fell for it!
2. He is a load of contradictions. He would show you he cares and loves you but there are times when he acts like he is just being civil.
3. When his ego is hurt, he hurts you back, and you don't know when the joke ends and the truth starts. It's a good thing that when he does this to me, I just let it pass and laugh at it as if I wasn't really hurt or anything. But boy, It really hurt! Just read my story up there and you'd know what I'm talking about.
4. He is good at camouflaging his feelings. This really confuses me because I don't know what I really am to him.
5. He is just so brilliant I hate it! We could talk for hours and we won't even run out of topics to talk about.
6. He would sometimes act as if he is chronologically older than me.
7. He can't actually stay in one place and that he even brings me along with him. He would drag me even for his errands. The funny thing is, I can't say no to him.
8. He sometimes tend to be controlling. I once told him he just has this influence over me that I just take his crap wholeheartedly.
9. He is just so cute and smells so good. Even if he thinks he stinks already, he still looks as if he wasn't messed up or anything, and he still smells sooo good! And I just hate it when I recall his smell because it just reminds me of him.
10. He tends to become laid back when he knows you are already under his spell.
11. He made me fall for him and I hate him for this! I was minding my own business trying to do what my boss wanted me to accomplish and then he comes in and just turned my erstwhile quiet life upside down.
12. He left me sooner than I expected. He doesn't even know how painful it was for me and for this, I truly loathe him!
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