There is quite possibly no other woman in the world maintains a higher opinion of herself than the Scorpio female. (You go girl!)
This sassy gal is the zodiac's femme fatal and amasses supporters who pave her way for her through life, if not to the point of rolling out the red carpet for her. A Scorpio woman drips with feminine allure but with an equal amount of foreboding. She spins a web and bids her mates to come hither - at their own peril.
According to the Sextrology astrology horoscope, Scorpio female unmoved by the advances of men in attempts to bait him into working ever so diligently to win her over. Our femme fatal invented "hard to get." In astrology, she's mystery wrapped in darkness, and carries a poker face. A Scorpio woman looks to men and asks herself "what can he do for me" sizing up each and every potential candidate - she wants the full package, coaxing out a man's abilities and best qualities while killing off his darker ones.
Scorpio is ruled by Mars and Pluto - a combination that could be akin to fire and ice. Burning aggression encased in a frosty outer layer. Scorpio women are the zodiac's only fixed female water sign, which controls emotion. Scorpio female controls others emotions - she never wishes for her own to be controlled.
The Scorpio Female Maintains the Ability to Control What the Rest of us Experience as Spontaneous Sensations
A Scorpio woman may seem like a cool character, even somewhat frosty in nature. She's not a cold fish, she's simply in control of her emotions. An asset that many women do not possess. Pluto's remote energy keeps impulsive expression in check. Scorpio female rarely acts rash. Carrying on and allowing emotions to rule her is not a trait of the female scorpion.In nature, a scorpion - when cornered - would rather sting itself to death than face defeat or submission. This is much like the astrological landscape of a Scorpio woman. If she finds herself cornered, her actions may become somewhat self-defeating in that if she feels she's lost or is facing submission, she'll begin to up the ante by performing behaviors that may do her - or the situation - in. Scorpio has a sixth sense. According to the Sextrology astrology horoscope, Scorpio female psychically draws experiences to her like a crystal ball tuned in to what life has to offer. She picks and chooses carefully and operates as a magnet. A Scorpio woman lies in wait for her prey to reveal itself. Scorpios astrological symbol has also been likened to a spider. She spins her web, weaving it perfectly and operating entirely behind the scenes. Then she waits, and waits for her next victim, trapping the bounty that she feels she's ultimately entitled to. A Scorpio woman strives for stillness, waiting, opportunities. A spider doesn't chase or stalk prey - it lies in wait.
All of This Talk About a Hard Shell Should Signify Something to You
The Sextrology astrology horoscope explains, because of her soft inner nature and her deep sensitivity, Scorpio female periodically embarks on long bouts of deep psychological descents, but generally not more than two or three times during her life. But these are not simply "blue" periods - these are monumental dark periods. Scorpio female sensitivity runs deep. Astrology's femme fatal wears an expectant expression, watching and waiting for something to occur or someone to arrive. She anticipates every word, every action. She will hurry conversations along, dismissing anything that visibly annoys her, often times only half listening. The rest of the time, she's waiting to interject her opinions. A trait similar to the Aries male.
Carrying an often expressionless look, a Scorpio woman is preoccupied. If something catches her attention, it won't be long before she'll approach. Scorpio female bears down on the individual with a Sphinx smile that signals her curiosity. According to the Sextrology astrology horoscope, a Scorpio woman can appear particularly cold and calculating to other women who may end up with a sense that she's hiding something. Concealing a secret "sting operation" behind that seemingly Arctic exterior. And guess what ladies? Most times - she is (but don't be scared). Many say that the Mona Lisa's expression is akin to the female Scorpio. A half smile that conceals deeper thoughts and beckons. Some stereotype her as a sex crazed harpy, but the Scorpio female is stalking out a permanent mate. But only the one who fits the bill, testing each and every one of them fittingly. A Scorpio woman is forever fixed in a state of "hatching a plan." She's driven by her desires.
Scorpio Female Doesn't Like to be Single
As a result will enter into one relationship after the other, taking very little break in between. Even if the man isn't "the one" - she may take him on as a hobby anywhere. Eventually, chewing him up and spitting him out - but spitting him out in better shape than she found him. A Scorpio woman's brand of beauty is best described as Gothic. That raven haired Mona Lisa whose hiding something and shrouded in mystery that beckons prey to her doorstep. Scorpio female doesn't need a man to make her feel like a woman. She was born feeling like a woman. A Scorpio woman exudes sexuality and has her pick of the litter. According to the Sextrology astrology horoscope, her age range is likened to that of 49-56, which correspondes to menopause. Another mysterious facet of female sexuality. This is a time when a woman's power shifts from that of reproductive physical growth to that of developing her own mental and spiritual prowess of the wise woman with a fatalistic nature.The Scorpio female seeks a union of the minds, although she can appreciate a nice physical appearance just like the rest of us. She needs to receive a vibe, like that of a fly trapped in her web, wrangling to free itself. A Scorpio woman craves an unspoken bond to merge and become one. She doesn't simply pair up - she possesses. She plunges into the depths of her lover's personality to help him fully realize his potential. She comes to relationships with nothing to loose and nothing to prove. According to the Sextrology astrology horoscope, Scorpio female thinks of herself as the perfect little gem, Ms. Flawless. But Scorpio woman has a fatal flaw, as do we all, and hers is not being able to admit when she's wrong. For our female scorpion will not take nary of bite of "humble pie."
This is so much so that she'll loose friendships, relationships and more due to her absolute distaste for it. (Again, the scorpion backed into the corner - begins to sting itself to death rather than submit.) Scorpio female settles into relationships very early in life and tends to lean towards mama's boys. A Scorpio woman can tolerate macho men, however, she may ultimately choose a man who is more willing to let a female control the wheel. A submissive sort of man that will lie back and let her take the reigns.
A man with a clearly defined mission of his own that has the ability to achieve them presents a problem to the zodiac's scorpion girl. This makes it difficult for her to stir the ingredients in her pot for her own personal success. If you've hurt her deeply or displeasingly surpassed her, the zodiac's scorpion girl will release a sting that is so terminal, it reduces her mate to a castrated pile of rubble. You'll definitely feel the sting of an unhappy Scorpio female. Launching the cold shoulder full throttle and freezing him out. The burden is always on the man with Scorpio female. He must never fail to provide that which she demands or he'll surely suffer. However, a guy with lofty notions that is oblivious on how to achieve them is a perfect fit for a Scorpio woman.
Scorpio Female Has a Healthy Self-Esteem and Feels Above Reproach
Even if a Scorpio woman submersed in deep depression her surface will emulate that she's fine. Admitting weakness is something that she simply will not consider. The stone face is on. It's everybody else who has the problem, not our scorpion girl. She's always feigning a yawn, and keeping a blase' attitude towards others.Let's not confuse all the "frost" referred to here with negativity though. On the flip side, Scorpio women are extremely passionate, tender and loving. A great friend to others and very generous. According to the Sextrology astrology horoscope, Scorpio female can also be quite successful in anything she sets her mind to and her ability to keep her emotions under control is an asset to her there. If a man is emotionless, he's a man but if a woman is, she's a bitch. Its just not fair and Scorpio women get a bad rap for this. She's not the type to be brought to tears in the conference room when the "big boys" there start railing. (She may go home and do it privately, but she'll never let you see it.) A Scorpio woman is one of the big boys and she's an equal to them. Some may say even a threat to them because she can do the job and do it well. Scorpio female is a woman in a man's world and quite fit for it - emotionally and otherwise.
Scorpio Female is in the Drivers Seat of Life
Sadly, women who are dominant, unlike many others who are submissive, tend to get a bad rap for it. Scorpio female is in control - of herself, her emotions, her man and her own destiny. Scorpio women maintain an indomitable spirit that cannot be broken or penetrated.* * * * *
Many thanks to the book Sextrology: The Astrology of Sex and the Sexes written by Starsky and Cox. The above piece contains my thoughts along with excerpts and borrowings from the book and for any of you that don't own this, I'd advise you have at least one copy of it somewhere in your house. I consider it the "bible" of astrological profiles. If you've ever wanted to decipher the mysteries of men and women, sex and astrological behavior by sign and gender - this is a must have piece for your collection.
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I'm a female scorpio and can relate to all this. How sorry I feel for all those poor men we have in our clutches.
Pls advise on scopio main weakness then...
Many thanks and Rgds
Ahhh - none were you not reading??
lol
what about the male scorpio?
I am a Scorp girl and that waz me all right! But here's the question; other sources say what the different signs look like, like the pisces feet are dominant, . What do you think is the main trait for the scorpio?
Scorpio's have distinct chins. we have birdlike features. The scorpio is one of the only signs assosiated with other animals. One being the eagle, and some others are the snake, pheonix, lizard.
Yet, I have to say that all of this sounds very sexy and dark but its one of those sites that calls us the femme fatal on every other sentence. aren't you all sick of getting the strange look from the maligned misconceptions that the scorpio has accrued over time? I think we are alot more humble as soon as we get over ourselves.
hi i am ascorpio female.every word of this write is so true and i sooooooooooo relate to each and every word.as i was reading i thought to myself gosh! this is so me.i liked it a lotttttttttt.
As an aquarius male, I can relate to this. The scorp girls I was with(Ive dated 2) were nice sometimes only. It was great when they would actually open up and talk like my beautiful Sag girl will with me and does now.
I found the Scorp girls to not really give a rats ass about me at all. Thats how it was, a game.
Scorpio is also my moon sign, so I get some of it, but I think I draw a different line. She actually had the nerve to tell me that I was only good for one thing only....sex. She ultimately left me for a guy of a more similar background and then later heard I had decent cash and asked ME to give her the money for her divorce. Unreal eh'. And as an aquarius male, I was blessed with the wonderful world of a scorpio mother as well. Did I also mention that my rising is leo? Sounds like fun!!!! On the other hand, most scorpio men and I get along in a more interesting way that makes the association interesting and enjoyable, I dont get it?
I'm a female scorpio, but I am actually nothing like this explanation, and thank god for that. who in their right mind would even want to admit that they are like this. Just go sting yourselves, you femme fatals, and rid the world of your shit!
clearly you were adopted then, your true birth date forgotten and given a mistaken birthday identity of a strong insufferable scorpio woman in place of a pathetic,weak, non conceptual, overshadowed sign.
clearly you are an idiot, and have a better opinion of yourself than you should. Basking in all the negative points made about your sign, you must be one of the stupid ones
how true!!! i have a scorpio female friend and she loves this mind game and being secretive, sometimes I think that she is not sincere with her friendship!! oh well not my lost! she is lovable and caring if she wants to, but give it a day or two, it seems that she does not know you already, communications already ended... I CALL HER "ICE QUEEN"
I am a female scorpio and I am exactly like this. I can't even help myself even if I wanted to. Men would love it if their were more scorpion women in the world. We are ambitious, great in bed, and brutally honest. We can't help if we are not sympathetic towards weakness. I love being a scorpion woman and I would not change it for the world.
i am a female scorpio and i can relate to this, but not completly.
i am very inquiring and in love i can be overwhelming, but its my passion for the other person that drives me. i care very much for those who am with for they are the rare few who i deem worthy of my love and care. not every scorpio female could fit this becasue your personality also relies upon your rising, moon, and other planets signs as well.
These analyses are great. Could you put up femle sagittarius and capricorn if you have the time please?
I am a cancer male. Hearing all these things about Scorpio women does a couple of things to me and the least of them is scare me. My mars is in Scorpio, whatever that means. I think people should look forward to having a Scorpio women experience.
Scorpio here.. I did enjoy reading this but at the same time... i feel scorpio's are just mean btches... something that i'm trying hard to change in myself...lol
I am a female Scorpio (Sun and Rising/Ascendent) and this description has hit the mark, as far as I'm concerned! The "femme fatal" reference is a bit Marta Harry"ish", but it's a fun description for those outsiders trying to figure us out!
I recently received a series of inflammatory comments from a Scorpio female that took great offense to this post. I decided not to publish her comments as they were largely repetitive, unnecessarily inflammatory and based of false assumptions all her own. Of which included claims that I'm an Aries female (whom she considers the most vengeful and cut throat of the zodiac), that I've had a lover stolen by a Scorpio and that jealousy produced this writing. Vivid imagination there, but these are her unfounded beliefs.
Anyway, I decided to come here and clarify a few of the accusations she's made and if she cares to respond in an adult manner - I will post her response. (I will have a discussion here with you, but not an inflammatory argument.)
So just to clairfy my friend:
1.) I'm a Taurian (hence the name of the blog). Sorry to disappoint you.
2.) I've never had anything stolen from me by a Scorpio - be it a man, a woman or a possession of any sort. The Scorpio female that I do know, I admire tremendously and she has only ever given to me and never taken from me. She is one of the most successful, driven women I know.
3.) This post was based largely on the profile contained with the book Sextrology as stated. If you feel it comes from a stance of vengence - I don't know what to tell you there. But I will tell you that their profile was based on lengthy, detailed personal interviews with hundreds of women representing the zodiac sign over years of study.
You miss the point with the post. Female Scorpios approach sex and life much like men do. They are able to detach from their emotions when need be - these ladies keep their cool and their heads when the situation calls for it. That can be misinterpreted as "chilly" because women are expected to act emotionally and Scorp females are one woman who, generally, will not. This is an asset - not a liability and Scorp females generally don't have their hearts broken. If anything, they break hearts because they are able to use their heads - even when their hearts are speaking a different tune.
They are a group of strong, independent, driven and largely successful women. Many of them will achieve great success and status in their careers (they fit well as a woman in a man's world) due to the fact that they posses the ability to detach from emotions when need be. This serves them well in business dealings and careers. These ladies won't be crying in the board room, they'll be leading the presentation and calling others out. Get it?
Does that make them "frosty?" Yes, to some it does. To others, they see it for what it is - a trait to be admired.
Will a Scorp female fall prey to the romantic lovesick sighs of a man in love? Only when her head tells her it rings true and her heart (emotion) agrees. Otherwise, she'll detach from her heart (emotions) whether she likes it or not, use her head and see you for what you are, turn tail and simply walk away - if her head is advising her to do so.
To me, those are admirable traits and you should view the Scorpio female as a leader among men.
i am a scorpio and i agree with this post. my friends call me the "ice queen".haha. funny how we are atleast called this once in our lives. and then i was tired of being called ice queen so i developed a new facade for myself. i am now "sunny and bright and warm". and most people dont even know that i am not like that. gottcha love the power of manipulation.
I am a fortynine year old scorpion female and I have to preface by saying that all signs have two levels of traits and characteristics that are aligned with higher and lower conciousness. anyone dealing in the spiritual and supernatural know this. Scorpios are highly spiritual when they reach the higher level and manipulation, sex and all the other lower characteristics assigned to this sign do not serve a purpose anymore. I can say I have been through ten thousand lives and have been reborn in one lifetime. I am lucky to survived my own destructive nature, but for scorpio this need to reach the bottom or near death is so vital in their spiritual growth. We are so much more powerful when we are living in a higher conciousness. I have always been psychic and I could manifest anything and was very cool about doing so. Except I never gave credit were credit was do and that was to who created me. Please people do not get caught up in worldly traits and aspire to use your power for the greater good. This is what Scorpios are here to do, because we do have an incredible force with us. Most of these posts have troubled me in that you are all working at the lowest level and that is sad. Be the Phoenix, Scorpio women, get over yourself and humble yourself, get rid of your ego and then you will see what real power is, it will blow you away and you would of wished of done it years ago. Mirror of Aphrodite I am shocked you would not impart this wisdom to all your readers. Take care Terese
i am kind of like this
but at the same time not so harsh
i have a libra moon and this may make me more sucessfull with friendships/relationships
i love the fact scorpios are passionate
but not all scorpio girls are like this
alot arent
and if they are honestly all there looking for in love is a soul mate]
and i often wont enter a relationship unless i think theres potential fro us
but if i find out that he isnt or
i was wrong ill run right out of it
and tend too hurt them
tho i hate doing it i dont want too lead them on
ithink i speak for all scorpio girls when i say
when we want something well take it but we do try too avoid hrting people along the way
oh and i used too never be able too admit when i was wrong
but ive gotten alot better
and usualyy try too avoid situations where i think arguements will ensue
where not heartless bitches
we just dont open ourselves like open books and would rather not get hurt
just cause we dont flit around and smile at every person in sight doesnt mean where not nice
we just dont like shallow relationships
and at least we dont sugarcoat the truth
I am a female scorpio. MOst of this relates to me though I have to disagree with the men part. I can't tolerate a man that will let me walk all over him and dominate him. I end up feeling condensending over him, bored... I like a strong manly man, he is a challenge and I like a man who likes to dominate, as I do to. It is true about the jumping from relation to relation...though in the end I found myself a nice scorpio man who knows how to handle me, giving in when it is needed and not when he is in the mood. Never a dull moment with us. We have a beautiful 3 and a half month old Leo boy.
hehehheh!!
im a proud scorpio girl.. and yea, my boyfriend is a mama's boy!!
I'm a 49 year old scorpio libra cusp and alot of this isn't necessarily true of me - I wear my heart on my sleeve, am very insecure and am currently having my heart broken. Ok, so I have broken a few hearts in my time too. I'm in love with a Cap. male and its tough right now. I think I'm in one of those deep depression times. But its cool to hear we represent the age group mentioned, since I just turned 49 and am hating it...
thanks -
jasmine9
I pray peace for you right now Jasmine9. I am a Scorpio too--who was in a lengthy relationship with a Capricorn. I was in LOVE with him, something that had never happened to me before. I'm a mother of two--and was never in love with the father of my children. (whole other story, but just to give insight) The reason I tell you this is because--though some of the traits listed we may have, they do not completely define us as individuals. I've grown a lot in the past few years. I got over the heartbreak, finally, but it took a long time, but I believe God had something greater in store for me. So, to you I say to go through the process, cry when you need to, but don't stay down. There's life to live and you have an impression to make on life. If that man can't handle the gift that you are, he doesn't deserve you, not at all. You may not see it right now, but something better is waiting for you.
Be blessed
Epiphany
I am a female Scorpio, most of the traits on this page is very true indeed of me. I am second oldest to 10 siblings and always seemed like the black sheep of my siblings and peers. I seemed to be more aware of things I shouldnt be at a young age, and was always more intellectual and articulate, especially verbally, which sometimes sparked up fights, or my siblings singled me from activities because of my sting and my ability to know how to use it. I chose carefully those close to me. Few made the cut. My exhusband and I married at a young age from being high school sweethearts. He is a Picses which Scorpios seem to be very compatible with..unless he is a pushover. He was very understanding of my feelings and even my crazy and mysterious thoughts and questions. But on the flip side he was the biggest liar I'd ever met. Along the way of our relationship and marriage, we became very close friends, almost identical to the closeness of best friends. So at that point I was comfortable and secure so I let my guard down. I then found out the whole relationship was a lie, and I felt very betrayed. I left him immediately because I couldnt bare the fact of being the loser. I hate to feel defeated. My heart ached as my departure was to a different part of the country. I went into a deep depression, but I wore a facade that told others different, again I dont like to feel defeated. Even though my heart ached, my mind was made up that he wasnt deserving of the special kind of love that I had to offer, and I longed for ways to take back the love that I'd already given him which seemed to be in vain. After about 6 months I returned to my home town and we tried to work it out. For some reason I couldnt. So we split again. Morally I was guilted with the importance of my vows, so I went back. Needless to say this ocurred about two more times and finally I let go. I was not able to forgive him and still havent. We still remain good friends but he can never get a piece of my heart again. After lifting what seemed like the burden of my life off of my shoulders, I vowed never to love again. Well that didnt work. I was vulnerable and was emotionally tortured by a Leo. But my usual trademark, I fled the state to rid my mind and heart from him. My run-a-way tactics worked, for my motto is out of sight out of mind. Now as my exhusband, this man begs to be back with me. That will never happen, but it seems like all men I come in contact with, always come back never forgetting me. Confessing things to me and revealing a weaker side to them that turns me off. Besides that my pride wont let me back track and I never rekindle old flames. Most people look at me like I have a stoned heart. But in reality I am very sensitive. I dont show it though. So my advice to Scorpio women: We are the definition of strength and change. We are very powerful, notice the effect you have on others, especially mentally. We sway the crowd, we steer the boat. Its not that we are bossy, we just dont like defeat. When we can humble ourselves and not use our strengths to conquer and destroy others, and trust me..we can..sky is the limit..Phoenix-- PEACEAGE
Terese4 you could have never said it better.
It is true to some extent. But the clarifications that scorpio women are strong, and successful in the men's world because they are able to put aside emotions is true. Look at famous scorpio strong woman in politics.
Hillary Clinton,
Condolesa Rice,
Laura Bush,
Maria Shriver,
Maria Antoinette,
and many more successfull and powerful woman are SCORPIOS !!!. I am a scorpio woman and proud of it. We can rebirth from the dead only to come out successful! We can achieve whatever we put our minds to, not to mention we ARE the sexiest sign in the zodiac...period. Good luck my fellow scoripian girls!!!
I'm a 38 year old female scorpio. A lot of this sounds like me but not all. In a 22 year relationship since age 16. Very possessive of my handsome husband. Very possessive but not dominating, a bit of a dominatrix :) He is the man. A weak man is definately a turn off. Don't like him talking to other women at all. He is a cancer. Tries to calm my insecurities, gets angry at my "jealousy". Not really jealous, it is a very sick insecurity. Walk around like I think I'm all that, don't really feel I am. Highly sexual. Very secretive, but want to know every thing about my husband. Christian, but still searching, wish I could become Hindu. Have always been black sheep, youngest of three. Realizing now why I was attracting married men at the age of 13. Always been overweight, trying to hide beneath the fat. Losing weight now with a new found feeling of control over my sexual energy. Have only 1 true friend that I would trust with my life. Try to keep my emotions in check, especially with marrital concerns. Don't like people to get in my business.
I am VERY loving and giving to those whom I deem worthy. Try to spread happiness wherever I go, have turned into a much nicer person with age.
I'm a Scorpio female and I relate to this well written article. The other Scorpion venom filled posts were so typical of a unevolved Scorpio. She didn't like being exposed for her weaknesses. Besides we are talking about a Sun sign and not all the other variables that make up a natal chart so not every Scorpio will fit this description. At any rate, it was a great read and made me smile ah-ha quite a few times.
Brilliant description of a scorpio woman. I am that woman to a T. One thing though, I do not like momma's boys. Can't stand them. My man needs to match my oh so advanced mind and I am hot on debates. Love a man to challenge my mind. It's all about power. It's an aphrodisiac. I love powerful authoritative men. Weak men get on my nerves and just don't cut it. Can't stand PISCES/CANCER men no offence to anyone..no way. My longest relatioship has been with a LEO and currently now with a Virgo who wants to marry me.
Yes some post on here did show an unevolved scorpio. they are a sight to see..I am generally a very optimistic happy go lucky kinda person. Love to have a laugh and spread happiness..But just don't cross me or you'll die. If you don't die you'll pay for it for the rest of your life. Oh my god, do any of my Scorpio sisters suffer temper issues? lol..love that temper..Whooosh smack down..
Love being the femme fatalle..they have it so right..we are the ultimate femmes of the zodiac.
i am a 19 year old female scorpio, snake in the chinese zodiac, and i love it. i am very proud of all qualities i obtain. i am strong, and able to use to my advantage. good at manipulating men. everything in this article describes me to a tee. except that sometimes my feelings are so strong, i can't hide them, but instead they come out extremely intense depending on how strongly i feel on the matter. most girls are able to be brainwashed, can't see the real from fake. scorpio women just like the article says, have a 6th sense. we can't be fooled. i am currently in love with an aries, and he balances me off perfectly most the time. he knows how bad of a temper i have, and is usally the first to say sorry. but i am extremeley and always will be 100% loyal to him. i love unconditionally, which is probably one of the female scorpio's most admirable traits.
Hey epiphany, your words were beautiful and so helpful...I'm dealing better now, even tho my 81 y.o. dad just had quad. bypass after heart failure a week before xmas - happy new year... SO, some of us scorpio women may have temper issues, only 3-4 people have ever experienced this from me; unfortunately for them. I raised my tail and they were sorely stung. I can't help it, I'm always so nice and when crossed, look out.
Someone wrote in july '08 and I must agree with alot she said, I am very inquisitive which alot of people hate, and passion drives me. I also dislike puppy dog in love guys, I guess I'm sorta drawn to bad boys, bummer. I think I'm a great lover too, so lucky is the man.
To the wonderful person who responded, I too have a long story of broken marriage and one lovely girl child who sees my occasional mood swings.
Thanks for this site and cool comments!
Jasmine9
I enjoyed this article and found it most amusing. It's funny how different sites who all say the same things may have one or two little details that are actual original points of views. I was born on the very last day of scorpio- nov 21st...my rising sign is sag so that's what everyone sees me as but im a hardcore scorpio inside.
I cannot tell you how much I love to read about other Scorpio women. I am 31 and am only now becoming comfortable with the Scorp that I am. My life seemed like this never ending cycle of death and rebirth- of digging so deep within myself I didn't think I would ever find my way out. I am constantly changing, growing, transforming...it is WONDERFUL!
I agree that somehow it is in us to evolve. We begin our lives with this powerful force that must be harnessed. It takes time to master these special skills and abilities- it doesn't happen overnight!
As for sex- if most of you are like me- I am a 'good girl' on the surface, but get me behind closed doors with the one I love and WOW, you better throw any preconceived notions out the window and hold on. But- if I do not feel a deep attraction for you (or the possibility of one) or if I sense that your heart isn't in it...it is over.
I cant get over how true this is, it is scarey. I am a female scorp oct. 24th on the cusp but i am a scorpio through and through. One thing i did not agree with is mamma's boys, I hate them! I love bad boys, a**holes, they are more of a challenge and are more fun. I get easily bored with a guy who will do everything for me. I just end up taking advantage of the poor fellow and leave him behind with a broken heart. Chewing up men and spitting them up until I find one worthy of my time, so true, I have not been single for more then a month in over 8 years. Good post one of my favorites I have read. Also I enjoyed reading what other scorp women have to say and I feel like they are talking about me
I agree with most of these traits, but you didn't really touch upon a Scorpio's enthusiasm for danger!
I am a 29 year old, Scorpio female and I absolutely LOVE extreme sports and will get down and dirty with jobs that most people won't go near. I love anything that will get the adrenaline going - skydiving, bungee jumping, swimming the English Channel, riding my pushbike in the busy and dangerous London traffic almost gives me a sense of inner-calm.
Also, I am quite the tomboy and in social situations are much more "one of the lads" than a "girly girl".
I would say it is true that Scorpios can disregard people if they feel crossed, but I have found that as I am becoming older, I have found the ability to look within myself and accept the fact that often it is the way I react to people which causes them to react in a certain way to me and I can actually change my approach and make peace with others, rather than holding a grudge! I don't know if this is a Scorpio trait, or it is just that I have accepted that I can be a little single-minded in my approach, but it's definitely better than becoming bitter!
As for the men, as a youngster, I was attracted to the bad boys, but now I adore my Piscean husband who is quite feminine and extremely loving and patient and needs constant reassurance. We have a very emotional connection and I feel I give him strength and he teaches me to be more forgiving and open with people. I think a Scorpio woman definitely needs this to compliment her strong personality.
I'm a scorpio ascendant woman with pluto in scorpio in my 12th house, and personally, I'm tired of reading articles about how maligned and over - sexed I am. While it's true I'd "sting myself to death" before I let you beat me, it's only b/c I know I have the power to tread the darkest places & emerge better, wiser, with even more power to eliminate enemies and obstacles, deeper psychic intuition, and a firmer grasp on my healing powers. However, if a scorpio's opponent is left standing (so to speak), it has nothing to do with self sacrifice and every thing to do with mercy. We don't lose, we attack our weaknesses understanding the lower self must die, and allow the higher self to emerge with more access to the forces of healing and regeneration that distinguishes us from the rest of the signs. We are the serpent, the scorpion, the phoenix, and the eagle. We have no use for webs, our force is nuclear. The misogynists who write articles like these hate the weaknesses in themselves, but lack the strength to overcome them. Instead, they write silly little blogs or start astrology sites where they undermine this (the only female water sign) and other female zodiac signs with their own ignorant opinions. I'm 24 (not the cougar this post characterized me as), I won't tolerate a door mat in neither a friend nor a boyfriend, and there are no poor men to pity in my "clutches." Unless I completely remove you from my presence, you can choose to stay or you can choose to go. If you're drawn to me or you're too weak to go, stop fighting it, stick around long enough, and I'll drag your sorry ass through the depths of unconscious human waste to bring you into a higher state of consciousness. After that you're free to go...but you won't want to. I also don't need to break down a strong man for an ego boost. As for you scorpios who don't know what I'm talking about, you would do well to learn about yourselves, focus on creating positive karma, and use your powers selflessly instead of strictly for your own gain. The scorpio is the healer through death and rebirth. Our challenge is to let go, as Axle put it we "live and let die."
im a 47 yr old scorpion female and while i agree with lots here there are some i dont agree with. Yes we scorpions are very strong willed and strong minded but what about our jealous streak that Im sure not many of you can deny that you have. I was like a previous poster loved the bad guys but got sick of always being the one to end relationships and ended up with a sagatarian mammas boy who made most of my life a misery except for my 3 kids.I was totally loyal throughout 14yrs of marriage while he was not. i ended my marriage 10 yrs ago for the sake of my kids, some strange self punishing part of me still loved him, would like to think it was the loyal part of me that scorpions are noted for!! anyway am plagued with insecurities since then, but have finally (i hope) met my true soul mate in a pisces, He loves me he understands me, he has forgiven me my many accusations of hiding stuff from me which results in mad jealous outbursts!! But one thing I have to say is that I wish pisces just didnt tell so many white lies!!
I dont know many other scorpions, but speaking for myself, I have loads of friends, but only 2 really close ones, I am brutally honest, probably too much so at times, i hate pompousness and snobbery, i absolutely detest lies, my motto always is "if youre goin to tell me a lie then just dont speak to me". I am a little too overprotetective with my kids, they would say way too much! Yes I suffer on occasions from a blackness that descends on me and makes me want to hide away from the world and retreat into my bedroom with a good romantic book and some lavender oil and at times way too many bottles of red wine!! I have always been full of life and energy in my job i would have been the one to keep the spirits up when the going got tough and the one that somehow many people told their problems to. I have suffered many illness and nearly died on one occasion and i think this opened my eyes to many things in life. There are things i dont like about myself ie my jealousy, inability to allow too many people to get close to me and difficulty in forgiving people who have done me wrong!! But also there are many things i like about myself. And it is true about the scorpions eyes, it must be, because all my life people esp men have comented on them, they are sometimes blue sometimes grey end sometimes green and sometimes all three colours!!!
I'm a scorpio female, and i'm bisexual; which I guess it's not an uncommon trait. Still; this description leaves a lot out of the story. Yes, i'm much like this, but they dont' state the reasons why; we're actually very noble people. We don't mess with people's feelings just because. We only mess with people who act or say stupid things; and as far as men are concerned, we don't dominate them; we let them be stupid, then we get rid of them. Our personalities are strong, so we need someone who can teach us a thing or two. rough love, people.
Wow you humans are all right. Gotta love the feisty ones haha being double Pisces I feel ur emotions too bad I messed up with a Scorpio chick....
ok so im a cancer right maybe not
a normal one but i am i didnt get
into to all this astrology shit
until i was about 16 thats when
i noticed that all the girls ive
ever dated or was attracted to
were either a scorpio or a cancer
never been with a p one dont no how
to spell it but yeah yall know. see me i love this girl right now
but dont think she loves me back
i know she loves me to death but
she dont know if she wants to be with me right now and i just want
to know if its because she's young
and immature (even though she
says she's grown but does the
opposite and calls it grown) She is
young sexy and a god damn pistol!!!
even though i admitt i know i
truly understand her she feels the
need to try and prove to me that
i dont....and damn good at it too
use to make me think but not no
more i can give her anything she
wants and some she dont expect
but i just cant get the real real
chance that i want and honestly
shes datin another guy right now
a guy shes left me for before and
came right back she is a repeater
by no doubt says the same shit to
me but in a different way she used
to tell me when she has sex with me
its not just sex but she's also said that about two other ppl ya'll
change ur mind to god damn much.
but she is my friend to the end
that's one thing i know for sure
even if things dont work out the
way i want em too. like really if
i got in a fight shed probably try
to jump in just to hit the person
who tried to start shit with me.
and i dont know if thats love like
love u can carry on one day and be
real with it or just friendship
love. i know for a fact that if i
was ever asked to give up my life
in order to save hers there would
be no hesitation. and i honestly
believe the same goes for her
now i wunna know does this sound
like love, or just best friends
Hi, I m a second decante cancer male(scorpio decante), libra rising, have pluto in scorpio at the end of house 1, venus in cancer, mars in leo and my natal pluto makes very strong aspects with all my personal planets(moon, mercury, venus and mars and even with midheaven). I am 21 years old and have many, many scorpionic traits evident in me. I have also undergone transformations in my life(sometimes painful) from time to time that have always led me to explore more of myself. It feels good but hey give me a break…! I think you scorpio girls have really gone mad and are just living in a world of fantasies(I am a scorpio and bang! I have got to be super human!). I know all scorpio girls aren't alike, there are those positive ones also, I am particularly talking of those who have made some very bitchy comments above, destroy lives of others and are proud of it! My dear "particular scorps" don't feel offended but learn to live with your feet on earth with your fellow humans. Try to excel in your positive qualities and try to get rid of the bad ones instead of boasting about them which is shameful. Think, when you are talking of changing from one guy to another what is happening to that supposedly "great loyalty" of scorpio? Just that the horoscope sometimes drives you mad and then, YOU and YOUR fantasies!
I apologize in advance if anyone feels hurt. I surely am no expert but said that what seemed to me true.
oh I'm a female Scorpio and I can say that all this is sooo true. we have an impenetrable personality, indeed. xD
Terese, that was excellent, thank you. Also agree with Anon on Apr 10. I'm a double Scorpio (heck I have a whole stellium) female, and I've been through to the dark side, done the whole transformation thing and got my T shirt. I generally recognize myself in the above description but am sick and tired of the whole "mysterious, raven, stinger-at-the-ready" Scorpio stereotype. Even if it is true, it is not necessarily something to be proud of or aspire to. We're not perfect, and being secretive, dominant and manipulative is honestly a projection of our own insecurities. Let's face it, if we didn't have them (and weren't afraid of them being found out), why bother to maintain control all the time?
Being a Scorpio is a gift, just for that ability to learn from life's pain, to learn from our shadow side, and to grow as a person. I appreciate that. I just wish so many Scorpios wouldn't get hung up on the shadow side and make it their only side.
Scorpios rock! =d
dude ima scorpio girl,, ima lot like this, but im very dark.. people say that im sexy but i feel dark and fading away, we have so many emotions and are naturally drawn towards darkness, and lots of pain. we have to be "that girl"
and the thing about the eyes is very true. i have deep, penetrating green eyes and i feel like i know things, and i have no idea how...
hey i'm newbie as far as getting into horoscopes but i am a female and a scorpio and this really describes how i am towards people and i can't help even when i try any advice
I'm a Scorpio girl (well, woman, in my late 20s) and I don't think this was a full description of the sign. Like many have posted above, this describes unevolved Scorpios. And, as we all know, most Scorpios move past the unevolved at some point in their lives, usually early on, and act more like eagles. But it's a shame that this article doesn't mention any of Scorp's good traits until the very last paragraph. It's like throwing some crumbs in at the end, and it hardly sufficed. Yes, Scorpio women have a way with men, but they aren't heartless or caniving about it. They have high ethical standards. They don't pick random men and mess with their hearts and minds. They prefer committed relationships and, when they do have sex, there has to be love there. I don't agree with the writer of this article who claimed that Scorpio women separate sex from love. That's complte BS. We are one of the few signs that need the two. If you want to talk about signs that can separate sex from love, go inspect the air and fire signs. There's a whole lot in that bunch. And stop pegging Scorp into that category, because, for the most part, it's totally false. And the part about Scorps liking weak-willed guys is also BS. Scorps need a guy then can respect and that is NOT a weak-willed man. I've had the unfortunate experience of dating a mama's boy and it drove me mad to no end. You also barely spoke of what great and loyal friends and lovers scorps are. I've met a multitude of people in my life and I will tell you hands down that Scorps are one of the realest people on this planet. They stick to their words and they value and seek real, deep relationships...not this new type of superficial, facebook crap that is good enough for most other signs these days. I have a hard time finding quality friends because of this. I've been blessed to find some great friends who are Cancer, Leo, Aquarius, and Gemini. But most of my other "friends" are just straight-up flakes or too stuck up for my taste. And, lastly, to clarify the ability of Scorp to control their emotions, you forgot to mention a HUGE reason for that. Many Scorps are sensitive beyond beliefe...maybe one of the most sensitive sign of all 12. In their youth, Scorps exprience pain and pleasure on really deep levels. Whether it's moving to a new city, being made fun of by classmates, breaking up with their first love, travelling to a new country, etc. the first time they experience these big landmark events in life, they feel them so deeply and are so moved by their emotions, that they have no choice but to learn to control these emotions for when they face these things again. When I broke up with my first love (he broke up with me, not me with him, contrary to the article) I was a complete MESS for 4 years. I went through the depths of despair and back. Now that I got over that, I am less intense and more logical in dealing with guys now. That's not to say that I'm not passionate. I still am. But I've learned how to insert my logic where in the past I inserted too much emotion. So, you see, we learn to control our emotions over time...as a coping mechanism and as a result of feeling so much the first time around. We aren't cold, heartless b-tches. We just learn to be a bit more aloof over time as life throws us curveballs so that we're better prepared for the next one. We are still feeling the emotions on the inside though, and would definitely show them to the people that we loved. So please realize this and stop painting us out to be emotionless or heartless. We are one of the most sincere, passionate, and giving in the bunch!
Boy, do I take a lot of heat for this post :-)
Annonymous, thank you for your participation here, your comment, your views and thoughts.
But I think I need to clarify a few things. I believe that you completely misunderstand the post and have missed the entire point here.
There's a difference between being in CONTROL of emotions and your heart rather than actually BEING heartless and emotionless. But let's face it, Scorp girl goes out of her way to give that impression. That hard outer shell's not for nothing, right? It's protection. Protection for the soft innerds. If you feel Scorp girl's are misunderstand . . . that's Scorps own doing. Chalk that up to the hard shell Scorps wear, not posts on the Internet.
You also wrote, "So please realize this and stop painting us out to be emotionless or heartless." But I believe what I said was, "The femme fatal maintains the ability to control what the rest of us experience as spontaneous sensations - thus making her seem like a cool character, even somewhat frosty in nature. She's not a cold fish, she's simply in control of her emotions. An asset that many women do not possess."
And you go further to say, "But it's a shame that this article doesn't mention any of Scorp's good traits until the very last paragraph."
Wow! Do you REALLY feel that having such an incredible asset as the ability to control your emotions and remain cool and calm in any and all situations is a BAD trait??? Especially for a women??? I don't see that as a bad thing at all and it's a shame that you apparently do.
And I don't believe I said that Scorp girl prefers a "weak-willed" man. I believe what I said was, "She can tolerate macho men, however, she may ultimately choose a man who is more willing to let a female control the wheel. A submissive sort of man that will lie back and let her take the reigns."
Annonymous, there's a difference between "weak-willed" and "submissive." And just because a man may take a submissive role with his mate, doesn't make him a weak-willed individual. There are many men in positions of great power that still go home at the end of the day and let wifey run the show. Don't you get it?
My friend, I believe you totally misunderstand the piece of writing above and it's a shame that you do not see that this piece actually describes a very strong, very passionate, very driven, very determined, very independent woman or won't take crap from anyone and is in control of her own destiny, refusing to settle for less.
Is that REALLY such a BAD thing????
Hi There,
Thanks for publishing my post. I didn't mean to sound so attacking and I do understand what you're getting at. But I still believe that this article focuses too much on the more manipulative Scorps out there, and there are many who are not. I know more manipulative Gemini girls than Scorp girls, actually. But for some reason, that side of Gem is rarely covered by astrology and it's the Scorps who get pegged as the manipulators.
Maybe it was the lengthy description comparing the Scorp woman to a spider weaving webs and waiting for its prey that just left a bad taste in my mouth. I just don't think that analogy does a Scorp woman justice because their intent is never to hurt others--it's to gain for themselves (and their loved ones) as much as possible all the while avoiding hurting people at all costs because they really do have a strong sense of ethics. So that's why I don't like the analogy or the gist of the article. It fails to explain why the Scorp acts the way she does. It's almost always for self-defense and self-preservation, which is actually a noble cause.
And, yes, I agree that having control of emotions is a good trait to have. In fact, it has come in handy many times during my life. I guess I just don't want people who read this walking away thinking that we are cold or careless when it's, in fact, the opposite.
Also, when it comes to the men Scorp women are attracted to, maybe it also pays worth looking into the descendant sign. Mine is in Aries, which means I like a strong, take charge type of guy. I feel like my descendent has more of an affect on the type of guy I like much more than my Sun sign. So it's always worth looking into someone's whole chart. I understand you were focusing on sun sigh, though, but thought I'd put that out there for those who aren't as well-versed in astrology and might place too much weight on this sun sign article.
Ok well, have a good one!
I went out with a Scorpio woman who had all of the negative traits (sloppy house = not happy, etc). It was a very negative experience (probably didn't help that I'm Aries,etc, and she needs serious help!) On the otherhand, my best female friends have been Scorpio. They seem to want to take me "under their wing". Male Scorpios are like this with me also. I'm really attracted to a strong woman, so it's my fate to be attracted to Scorpio...sigh.....
I completely agree with Anonymous's May 14th and 15th posts. They are spot-on about the Scorpio woman. I would not add or take away a single word.
Thank you so much for taking the time to post and in so doing correct AND clarify some of the key (mis-leading)points of the original article....Mama's boy? Don't think so!
Yes, we are a noble sign and we do NOT treat people badly at all. If anything, we're very safe to be around because we don't take advantage of people and we are straight-up direct, honest and sincere.
We are also loyal, generous and very kind to those we care about.
Have a blessed day!
I'm a female Scorpio, and this describes me 100% whether I like it or not!
I'm a female Scorpio,I was born the night of a full moon, does being a full moon child affect the traits of a Scorpio in any way?
heyy.. me a scorp gal herew!...ypu ahve hit the nail with whatever written above!!.. totally agree... tho I am more emptional, caring and many a times sacrifice and put myself before fro the ppl who I care and love....
I kinda like a viro man.. lets see how things take shape..raed a lot abt a virgo man and scorpion woman being one of the best pairs.. please wish me luck... I think he is the rite one I wd live to love with all my life!!......
also... to say i love myself too much every bit....ands happy tht I am putting it to use in the very rite way.... spreading postive vibes and energy to ppl arnd me....
cheers...
good anal of the eagless!!!.....
As a scorpio female,i actually agree with anonymous' 'critique' so to speak,of the post. Though,there is validity in what the OP is saying/has written,I find anonymous' points extremely accurate in description,and that the OP was rather incomplete as a post. [sorry,i don't see the post as incorrect,but as very incomplete,especially the part about high sensitivity being the reason for the control of emotions and shell. And,i totally agree that scorp females are wrongly portrayed ALL the time in astrology as all about sex,manipulative,blah blah blah...]
Powerful,in control of one's destiny,able to move in a man's world,yes,true.
Also,completely about transformation and movement/evolution,and this is the 'self-preservation' mentioned-more about self-honoring and self-respect [perhaps also called 'confidence,as you mentioned],and we take this very seriously-this self-respect....and it reflects in our relationships whether friendships or romantic: We are highly ethical and value honesty and sincerity.And respecting others as we would respect ourselves is essential. So,we learn to pace ourselves and our emotions,b/c we learn quickly how their intensity can impact our and others' lives. And create undesired results.
What I do agree with also,are the couple of posts that differentiate higher and lower expressions of scorpio energy. I'm sure this is true of all sun signs-the more evolved one is,the more subtle and evolved the expressions of the given sign.
That's what's so brilliant about astrology...life's a journey.
Making this distinction with scorpio females is very important. The more evolved expressions are really about transformation.
Oh,and yes,love and sex are inseparable for female scorps. I also agree with anonymous in making that emphatic point.
I have found,of all the signs,that male and female scorps. are the MOST different,though.
SO,perhaps male scorpios can easily separate love and sex. Honestly,male scorpios are like a different species to me-
i have never seen this so much with male/females of others signs....
Its all true except for the part of ms.flawless.
I do accept responsibility and the blame sometimes, especially in a fight with a very good friend, i am the one who breaks the ice and apologizes first.
Agreed. I don't have the flawless thing,either...more that I know noone's flawless,and so why bother trying to emulate perfection? I'd rather have my journey and experiences....
And,i definitely apologize,as well.
Also,didn't notice the legendary scorpio depth mentioned-the intensity is related to depth in the psyche,and in relationships...hence,the pop psychology stuff always saying scorp careers are: psychology,investigative,counseling,etc.
When channeled into work like this,the secretive and sensitive scorpio does not need to manifest these traits in interpersonal relationships,and it's more balanced. i work in trauma healing/healing arts/hypnotherapy,and it's so fulfilling b/c you get to work with others' inner landscapes,yes,in a controlled environment where they open up and you don't...but it's good,b/c the intention is high level,and the results are not manipulative.
Nice blog,btw.
The woman that wrote this about HERSELF and her WISHFUL THINKING was daydreaming while diddling her nether regions .... I've known many Scorpio sign women and they are not like this at all. They don't prey on people, are very sensitive, cry easily, show emotions readily and are hurt deeply...they are extremely sensitive like the Cancer female, and they try very hard not to admit it or show it, but they cannot hide it at all. They may get vindictive but all women do...when you have a vagina you are always playing 'goalie' ! LOL
Anonymous,
What's with all the focus on your vagina anyway? It's a tad creepy and maybe you should stay outta there for a while. (Maybe you should've read my further explanations and clarifications in the comments here as well.)
What I find interesting is this: I have written several profiles on different females of the zodiac. And not all of them are cleaned up, love and flowers versions either. I have said things in each of them that could set the readers "off base" for a moment or so about themselves. We all have good and bad qualities.
But I only receive the scathing comments about it - on this post, from Scorpio women. That, in and of itself, says a lot to me. Other signs can look at the good and the bad about themselves. But it's the Scorpio females that are the only one's lashing out.
If you want boring, hugs and kisses types of profiles where everythings peaches and cream. . . go visit one of the large chain sites that spurns that generic sort of stuff out.
You liken the Scorpio female to the Cancer female due to emotions and sensitivity? You may want to backtrack on that comment. Have you read the Cancer females profile?
Anyone with a brain knows that overly emotional women are not all that well-balanced at times. Emotions get the best of them and it can send others running. (Kinda like what's been going on here in the comments of this post.)
Additionally, the Cancer female has an association to the Egyptian Goddess, Isis. She's emotional and all gooey and nice. . . but generally - only to men. NOT to other women. The word nemesis is derived from Nem-"Isis". And most Cancer females will treat the women in their life as competition - as a nemesis.
Funny though, I don't see them here commenting about their unjust profile. And I don't see any Gemini females upset about being called revolutionaries or "stir the pot" types either. And I don't see Taurian females pissed off that their crazy tempers or stubborness were written about.
It's only the Scorpio females lashing out here. . . .
stupid article
nothing right about it
I think the keys to this assessment is the fact scorpio is represented by 3 animals, the scorpion, the gray lizard and the eagle.
Most scorpios go through each animal in their lifetimes. The scorpion state is pretty much what is described above. The lizard is self- absorbed, self destructive and bitter.
The eagle is what scorpios achieve when they have matured. That isn't always caused by age, but by spiritual growth. I have been all of the animals, and am currently an eagle. Eagles are powerful, wise, family oriented and much more open and kind. I look back at each phase I went through, and can't believe I was ever that person.
I do have people laying the red carpet out for me. Not literally, but metaphorically. I have earned that accolade by taking on the pain of those I let in to my shell, crying their tears, and helping them heal. It's something I have done for near strangers whose souls reach out to me.
I have fought long and hard to become the best person I can be. My love, loyalty, empathy and kindness are part of who I am. If I've been cold in the past, it was to protect myself so I could survive to become an eagly.
I am a scorpio woman and have to admit that most of it is true what they say. I let my companion think he runs the relationship, but underlying I do. And if he is not meeting up to his full potential, then off I go for another conquest. I see no sense in wasting time, when time could be spent doing bigger and better. The bad part is I run my whole life that way and really have no regrets because it works for me. But anyone who comes across a scorpio male or female, I feel they are privledged. Because as long as you dont try to deceive us, we will do what it takes to make that person happy and if nothing else will always be there when you need a listening ear.
I am willing to admit I have my flaws and I am able to admit when I have made a mistake. But I dont believe in repeating the same mistake.
I do however get alot of complaints about how unattached I get at times. But if a person really get to know the person I am, then there shouldnt be any complaints. They will just know that how it is and just to give me the space I need to gather my thougts, then Im back at full throttle.
Scorpios are really not as complicated as many would think. Just stay real and dont try to play with out emotions. Because you will get cut off and regret that you ever did.
Mirror of Aphrodite-
Yes,other signs have 'negatives' posted about them,but they are not usually,in pop-astrology,so nearly stereotyped as the scorpio is. Think about it.
oooh,libra doesn't like to make decisions. oooh cancer cries and is moody. ooohhh,gemini likes to change her mind.
Contrast that with 'scorpio is manipulative,all about sex,doesn't admit when wrong,' etc etc.
Also,think about: Scorpio is THE sign of transformation-it's what scorpios live for [again,the 3 animals].But most only mention the scorpion sting.
Imagine: If you spent your entire life,your raison d'etre,looking within and seeking tranformation [though some will stay at the level of scorpion and use manipulation,etc],and all that was constantly written about you was pidgeon- holed,would you want to speak up?
As well,I wrote,also as anonymous,that you did not mention the legendary depth of scorpio. We actually give a sh*t about this stuff. How many signs have the same seriousness [over-seriousness,in truth]and depth about such matters?
Sure,air signs like to play around with them,even pisces can 'go there',but they certainly are not as committed to being in the depths for as long as scorpio.
Perhaps,in fact,this is why your other posts about females of other signs have not been met with outcry? These other girls don't give a sh*t what you write about them,whether true or not.
Or,perhaps you'd rather assume it's because YOU are not wrong,and that our posts go to prove what you've written? [you know,frame it like you are getting flak b/c it's scorpio female.]Classic.
I will say this,if there's one thing scorpios tend to do well,it's THINK. ANALYSIS.
I also find it interesting that scorpio is perceived as wanting the best or moving on.
This is true,as in,if the partner is not living up to his potential,then the relatinship is not,and can not,do the same. And we're outta there. Again,we are HERE for transformation and to live life from this perspective. It only makes sense.
What is interesting,is that all signs have their own agenda; each and every person in a relationship has a desire for it.
Scorpio takes the heat because scorpio KNOWS what her agenda is,in a relationship.
I say people need to grow up and get real-nothing wrong with knowing what you want,as the original post stated.
What is weak is that others,presumably other signs,do not fess up to having their own agenda,be it security,social status,posessions,emotional bonding,playing it safe....whatever a signs wiring seeks,and the level of consciousness of a given person of that sign....will have a particular agenda.
Be honest. And don't be freaked out if someone else knows and is honest.
No one person is perfect. Like I said,I don't think I'm flawless,nor do I think anyone else is. So,there is no reason for me to think I'm never wrong,nor any reason to live in denial of my emotions,as a result.
I am not striving for perfection,but am striving to understand,which involves forward movement=sometimes can manifest as competition and drive and power,or may manifest as changing relationships.
The committment is always to the Self seeking itself. You could call it self-aggrandizement,but again,it depends on the level of consciousness of the person. scorpion-snake-eagle.
do u happen to have an article about scorpio male? coz my boyfriend is a scorp, big time! please... thanks!
October 24th, 1992. I love being a scorpio! I love the secretivness, the darkside, the ability to control all. I completely agree with what this article said. Of course, this is just a guide line to the scorpios nature.. all scorpios still have their own personality and characters. But for the most part, after reading this, I realize now where the roots of my personality and charater comes from! this is so awesome! WOMEN RULE! and the scorpios are the ones to do it!! and have been...
i agree with what the article said, and i'm not closed-minded to the point of thinking that everything that it says must be true to every scorp-femme out there. being a fellow scorp-femme, i take every criticism with great stride and hope that whoever dishes it out expects to get it in return from me. I think that the more intune you are with who you really are (whether thats your personality, zodiac, both, or something else) you will find that alot of these traits may be very true. Of course we all have to take into account outside factors such as upbringing and society. but to say that all are like this, of course not true. i'm sure the writer didn't intend for this generalization to be taken as a definition for all scorp-femmes. I find that i'm very much like what she described, except for my relations. I'll save all my bundled up love and passion for my true love, not going to waste his time if i'm not feelin him. But scorp-femmes do tend to be the more dominate of the female zodiacs. and to the sick perv who was saying something about all women are emotional because of vaginas, you must've never met me before. I'm only kind to the ones that deserve it, otherwise, be prepared. now, i don't walk around being mean to everyone, of course not. i love giving selflessly, and what not, but jerks, a-holes, b*****, and other types of rude for no reason ppl, they shouldn't expect me to be kind to them. and scorps are very intuitive and spiritual, very true. once spiritualty is considered (which comes as one gets older and wiser), then i believe scorp-femmes will be equivalent to every strong female that has ever been successful in life. I think this article was mainly targeted for the younger scorps who are just beginning to realize who and what they are.(i'm young myself,21, so i'm not putting anyone down here, just speaking my thoughts) but at the same time, some of these traits hold true since scorps were youngins in the sand box. so, to the scorp-femmes that took offense to this, i say..."get over yourself" to the ones that say 'its a shame to be that way, who would want to be that way?' i respond "it wasnt a choice, its a way of life. whether i wanted to be this way or not, that's how i turned out." but i enjoyed reading the article, i thought it held very true points. my best friend is a pisces. we couldn't be anymore opposite or alike at the same time. and the guys that i'm attracted to are gemini or scorpio. two matches made in hell it may seem. this article is what you make of it, but don't insult us scorp-femmes by being rude to the writer. it's you who are rude that put shame to our zodiac.
i am a 27 years old scorpion and whilst i agree with some of the points , scorpios are much more intense. There are no likes or gray about us. we love or hate or its simply black of white. we are not necessarily mean individuals because of our blunt personalities people tends to shy away. i am very passionate and look deeply into every given situation. very generous, caring, family oriented, impulsive and blunt. we give a 100% in love but when we fall out wants to take back 200%, intuitive and clairvoyance. have an eye for deals and hate sloppy and untidy surrounding. tends to act anf think years in advance. female scorpian are attracted to older mature strong personaly male, as they think they can learn from them hence exercise respect and will keep the scorpion calm. i have never met 2 scorpion who is exactly alike as they have the ability to show everyone else a different facet of their personality but one thing is always commom, they never appear wishy washy or naive.
05 nov 1989...a scorpio female. a lot of heat has been raised regarding much of what defines us.
and i believe that the word we can all agree upon is TRANSFORMATION.
i have been through the phase described here. i was the cold ice queen since the age of 11 when i made fun of not only by my classmates but my teacher as well. this made me want to protect myself and i admit that for the next 3-4 years i wasnt the best person to be around.
looking back, i am going to be 20, that part of me was important...the cold part of me protected me from much bullying when i went to secondary sch and taught me to be self-reliant. i am independent and confident of who i am today because of the way i was a few years ago. i would describe myself as being optimistic most of the time with a speck of cynic mixed together...
my best friend is a cancer and she and i have been best friends for the past 5 years. in fact without her support i would still have been stuck in the ice queen phase. of course she is only one of the 3 good friends that i have and i am more than happy to keep it that way.
i hope i am on my way to being the eagle but i still have a long way to go...
one thing i also agree on is our ability to feel and our power of intuition.
i have always known when someone means me ill without them even having to speak a word. at the same time i also know when someone is being sincere to me.
also i think we are determined to finding out what is the truth and mystery that surrounds our soul and thus this lengthy discussion that we scorp girls seem to be interested in.
as for being clairvoyant i believe we have more ability than the rest...i know i do...
as for interest in males...i prefer men who are able to connect with me.love unconditionally. ladies men are part of my fantasy where i can lord over him...but if i ever have to fall in love....then it has to be intense and passionate and all consuming.
i dont think i can settle for anything else.
funnily enough, my best friend..a scorpio with a libra cusp, just commented today that i seemed to be a man trapped in a girls body...i guess we are tomboys at heart!
i am a scorpio as well, &just a plain(i knw we are everything BUT plain)scrpio with no other signs in any houses... so i relate to this so much. this is me to the T. &i'd like to add something for those who label us scorpios as "b*t***s"... we are misunderstood. SOO MISUNDRSTOOD. we really dont be mean or cold with you unless we feel attacked. but this is where you hve to be careful. very careful we are highly sensitive &even with a simple question...or nt the right tone we can feel as if it's an attack. so be very careful &just love us!! no need to hate on us any longer (:<3.
I'm a Scorpio female and this rings so true for me except the part about Scorpio women and Mama's Boys and someone they can control. I'm a total control freak but I've had it with guys I can control. Mama's Boys actually get on my nerves. Other than that it was right on.
Let's face facts, if you want someone to help you improve yourself, to stand behind when you're trying to accomplish something, and to stand up to you when you're wrong, call a Scorpio. Though we cannot admit failure, we are the strongest behind the scenes supporters you might ever have, if you treat us right. Treat us wrong, once we might forgive, but twice and we'll leave you high and dry and begging for more.
Hey Taurus author, i am just posting a article on scorp females. I am used to regularly contributing to other astroblogs in the name of jenniferschonberg or rgopi30. It is my original from past experiences,just gimme your views
Scorp girls are not just a dilemma to others they are a dilemma unto themselves. The tremendous volcanic emotions in them confounds their rational thinking in their early years until they have learnt to put the lid on the cooker. Add to it a primordial lust and anger, fright and flight, you have a black witch brewing a meaningless brew of emotions in the cauldron of her heart. She does not know what she is brewing and the one final stage that they come to is to repress and evade or rather remain in denial of such emotions.
When pressured by circumstances the lid blows off, their very existence is self-questioned and they come to a mode of Harakiri, and finally a resurgence to a new person. The newer person is not vertically evolved with greater morals or intelligence or effacement of destructive miasma of emotions; rather, it is a lateral evolution. From a Scorpio One they become Scorpio Two, who has acquired some more coping skills. The power of this woman is more of a finite ego power, albeit a very powerful on,e as opposed to the tuning in with nature and the universe to an infinite source. This power manifests itself in its intensity of application and she prides herself in it. Whatever is done is done so with an intensity, and the Scorp gal feels that the greater the intensity, the greater the power. Intensity and the source of it the ego is a finite one which exhausts itself and leads a trail of destruction wherever it goes.
When perverted, as in most cases, the power can manifest as manipulative mind games in love and in business. Such a person lacks compassion and is a sociopath. This is an extreme case of things gone wrong.
The one challenge for Scorpio gals is humility and the ability to efface the intensity factor as opposed to expressing, evading or repressing it. Playing it cool is not the same thing as genuine coolness. Authentic power comes from being at peace with oneself and with the others, even be it there are hoards of injustices on this planet.
HEY Taurean author another of my scorpfemale articles. You can write me at jenniferschonberg@gmail.com
At the onset I have no biases against Scorpio girls. I have long been dealing with Scorpio girls, and their psychology is one of the most intricate. It is not to denigrate them or accuse them, just to make them turn around and face the facts so things become more easy for themselves as well as their intimate acquaintances.
The one slush that Scorpio girls have in plenty is Vanity. Here we need to make a distinction between pride, vanity and arrogance – all three of which are hallmarks of a powerful ego – and Scorpio gals have more of this ego power than the men do.
Pride is obsession and attention-seeking displays of yourself and your possessions, like a peacock flaunting its feathers.
Vanity is a social evil which comes out of meritocracy. For instance, owning a limousine is fine, but looking down upon the other man not owning one is bad. An attitude of if I am seen with this clown, it shall be degrading is vanity.
Arrogance is downright abuse of power.
I have often come across Scorpio gals who are caught at the crossroads between following their hearts in love vis a vis the misguidance of the ego. This can be demonstrated from the scenario from Wuthering Heights where the housekeeper Ellen questions Catherine. Catherine is torn between her heartful love of Healthcliff (a mere servant) versus the egocentric ambitious choice of marrying Edgar Linton ( a landlord).
Ellen (E): Why do you love Mr. Edgar
Catherine (C): He is young
E: Bad
C: He is handsome
E: Bad
C: He is handsome to be with
E: Bad
C: He is rich and I shall be the richest woman in this neighborhood
E: Worst of all.
C: And he loves me
E: You would love him without the last if he possess the first four qualities and with it you would not until he had former four attractions
That is when Cathy breaks down to confess that her love of Healthcliff is like the rock beneath and that for Edgar like the Autumn foliage which time shall change. She dreams a dream where the angels take her to Heavens (Edgar Linton’s palace) she cries to come home (to Heathcliff) and she is accursed and thrown down where she wakes up sobbing for joy. The ending of Cathy is a great tragedy and a death arising out of a severely asundered heart.
Oftentimes I have seen Scorp gals in such a dilemma between material ambitions, social acceptances and vainglorious aspirations and following the course of their heart. In the process, they break their lives as well as their significant others. Another case is one of Grace Kelly. I am not aware of any Heathcliff in her life but the Edgar was definitely HRH Rainier.
The challenge for a Scorp gal is be true to her heart and soul. What she thinks of as from her soul might in fact be just from the depth of her ego; this can be misguiding.
Adage: The heart has its way of which reason knows nothing and finally love sees you through. Seek ye the kingdom of heaven within yourself and these things shall be added unto you.
Following ones heart adheres to the highest psychological principle of self-esteem, self-love and honoring of ones self.
I have a scorpio moon only but heavily aspected and prevalant in my chart; I am a virgo by sun (speaking of which- where is the vir-gal profile???) BUT... if I may (because I have analysed it to be as such ;P) I will say "I feel" I am more scorpio inclined...
I completely agree that the above lacks the level of depth I feel contented with in explaining this sign and its different states of conciousness. If these hardened and manipulative actions come to the fore-front, is it not just because they are more un-evolved in consciousness and it is the scenario of putting up defences to protect the strong emotions? Hardening them in a attempt to control so that it may be precieved by others (and importantly to themselves) that they will not be overwhelmed by their inner pains.)
I think this is the conflict above- the "hardened" camp has said they agree because they see life as hard and these defences of control are the easiest ways to protect ones survival. The other camp (which could be equated to the more spiritual "higher conciousness" side) I think feel insulted because they feel they have "evolved" past these defences- recognising that life is hard etc... but still feeling emotion and depth and searching for passion and trying not to "hatch-plans"/ be manipulative because going beyond this is the stronger option. It is this that allows them true strength... to be that sensitive character that feels so passionately and strongly -openly- even though it could cause pain because it offers more learning and greater survival to be able to know you were re-born from the ashes.
I have read the scorpio males profile on here and I would like to say that I feel I resonate more strongly with this kind of character... Trying to pick out the beauty and mystery and cultivating good traits in myself even though I know they may mean I might feel more pain in the long run... I dont know... I am a virgo sun so may be a little bit masochistic? I may not even know what I am talking about because it is only from my moon's perspective.
Good healthy debating though! Take care everyone.
scorpio female here,
loved this post, and the discussion (save the bitter & ignorant remarks!)
About those remarks, I just want to note there are bad apples in every zodiac signs. Virtues & vices run deeper than zodiac signs- u'r a human, first & a "sign" second.
now, back to the post -
it was great & INSIGHTFUL
However, i find that when i've been cornered and have thus ended relationships/friendships i wasn't aware of feeling to "proud" to make amends. I recall feeling terrified that someone's vices might affect my strength, objectivity, success, and self-love. When I learned to be more confident and trusting of my self, I learned to let other people be, and i learned to be w/them harmoniously in so far they don't interfere with my success. By putting my peace & success first, i find that I am a little less generous, but a little more honest and patient.
As far as men are concerned:
1- it should be noted that many scorpio women have a fluid sexuality and though we enjoy heterosexual experiences, homosexual fantasies are ever present.
2- a preference for docile men can stem from an ignorance about ones own weaknesses and needs. A more humble scorpio woman can appreciate a man who is ready willing and able to care for her - that type of partner can REALLY help a scorpio woman succeed!
The Scoprio woman can't afford to be rash, presumptuous, hot-tempered, sensitive, short-sighted, vengeful, or outspoken. those traits are reserved for scorpio-girls, haha.
Becoming an eagle is a beautiful process, one can really contribute strength, positivity, and self-awareness to one's environment.
I'm a scorpio woman. Seventeen to be exact.
And like someone else mentioned, I'm also new to this whole 'zodiac thing.' Honestly, I thought it was fucking (can I say that?) stupid. Then I decided to see what other people think they knew about me, and googled "scorpio personality"..and it described me perfectly. The thing that got me is the sensual appeal she will have is undeniable, and she will have to live with this..like it or not.
I found that so unbelievably wierd when I read that because I always feel that I exude a sexual appeal, which what made me go into a shell. I don't mean to!! I'd say to myself. As well as the whole six sense thing. I don't believe i'm physic, nor am I fasinated with death. But I do have a deep understanding of people most will never see. Also the mental checklist we go through with people to see if they qualify to be in our lives..SO TRUE. I actually smiled widely when I read that. It's insane because I was just thinking about that the other day.
Almost every night I go into this deep, deep depression I have to pull myself out of. Then by morning everything is perfect. Sometimes I feel my own worse enemy is myself.
Although I believe every one is different, no matter what sign we fall under. The whole "cold hearted bitch" thing is so untrue. I might be only speaking for myself, but I love to laugh. I love to make others laugh. I'm not gothic. But am more attracted to the dark features on people rather than the light.
I think trying to understand someone by what sign they're born under is unfair. It all depends on how they were raised, what situations they've been through in their lives, and who they're surrounded by. You can't pick apart what you think is what a person really is, because like you've so bluntly stated you don't really know a scorpio, you don't really know a person in general. Until you've stepped into their shoes and tried on their skin, you can't say every scorpio is like this.
But very good description. I think it's more of an understanding if anything to me. Though I know a couple leos that don't fit their description. People need to change that. I think leo's are the most misunderstood.
As a scorpio female I have most of the qualities described in the post but the negative qualities are only brought about when hurt. Overall, good post but it is a bit one sided. There is more to the scorp woman than the dark traits of her personality it fails to highlight the most positive qualities of a scorpio woman.....loyalty ( I would end a relationship before I would cheat and because we are so loyal usually the people we love wind up hurting us because we have such high expectations for those around us when it comes to loyalty), generocity, very family oriented and if a scorp woman appears to be cold its because we are so soft harded, passionate and a ball of emotion on the inside. We have defense mechanisms but it takes time for us to trust because we are very loyal and once you get inside our mind and our heart the walls will fall down. The love that we have to give is so encompassing that we feel those around us can not handle the intensity of it so we have to be careful of who we give that kind of love to so at first we will be very guarded and cold. So an encounter with a scorp woman will be worth your while. Scorp women are intriguing,can overcome any obstacle, mysterious, intellegent, jealous ( the more jealous the stronger our love is for you), and vengeful(but usually only if hurt),passionate, loyal, generous, sensitive, harmonious(despite the post...not argumentative but opinated without a shadow of a doubt... we will stand up for what we believe in) and will care for you with all her might. The love she has to give will knock you off your feet ;)
I am definitely the typical scorpio woman, it's almost embarrassing how I fit the description.
I would like to say, however, unlike most descriptions of the sexy scorpio, I am extremely humble and I keep my sexual appeal under wraps. I don't flaunt my sexuality, in other words. I also know when I am wrong and how to apologize---which is often :(
(I'm a double scorpio in case anyone cares)
November 9th-I like to take time to post a comment. I enjoy reading these to see if I feel they are true. I agreed with alot of these as well with alot of your posts (depends on how your raised, environment, etc.). I'm 27 now. The older I get, the mroe guarded I become with those close to me. Mainly as a protective mechanism to not get burned/used (learning from past mistakes). But also, another reason is I can't tolerate people who are mean, cruel or judgmental. Eventhough learning these traits makes me judgmental (but I mean it in the best way-not in a harsh way). I used to be attracted to the bad boy/momma boys, but not anymore. I learned that its gotten me no where. I found a Taurus that caught my heart. It was his personality. He was everything I wasn't, calm, patient, pragmatic. I knew him for about 5 years and finally built the courage to express myself (no response-but it was nice to let him know how wonderful I know he is). As far as the evil parts of scorpio, yes I am guilty, but only when hurt badly (betraived, disrespected, cheated, insulted). I try not t lash out. Instead I just ignore them because being mean purposely and intentionaly never makes me feel good. As far as work, yes scorio women are wonderful. We know how to gain respect without kissing up..no offense to anyone at all, but its true and I'm really proud of it. I love us scorpios (the ones on a highter level). THe mean/ruff ones are just that and I stay away. The pleasant ones are extremely wonderful and love them and continue to try to be that way. As far as manipulating men...for me I just like to play mentally (no harm intended...honestly..but I should work on that..because it isn't right). I'm still learning and trying to grow. These posts/comments help me look inside and think of what I can improve.
I am a Leo, my recently ex ( a Cancer Mama boy) dated a Scorpio and left her for me that I didn't know until her annoying phone calls & texts everyday made me wondering..he told me she is a bitch and mean or because he 's a player to her.
After dated a year, I found out they are still talking and seeing each other as a friend!!. As a girl, I hate him to have friend as an ex, but she is a Scorpio so she knows how to play the game patiently to get him back by being his emotional & sexual supportive when our relashionship had problem. I am a Leo also sexually attractive but can't stand his needed between two women and her mind games.
He didnt say he wanted to leave me for her as he did it to her in the past. She called me for confrontation that I wanna be w him or not and I said she can have him. I left their battle,not because I loose because I know what he did to her in the past as a Scorpio she will never forget, soon or later he'll definitely feel the sting of an unhappy Scorpio female if he would betray her again as he is still a young cancer male..and that I cant wait...
You wonder why should I left my man. A Leo woman when they make up their mind they never look back, they keep move on and find their perfect mate..
ladies ladies ladies, this interested me because I have had my first kiss a scorpio and it has been a struggle but a great experience of growth and evolvution. But now I had to step up and bite the bullet for both our mistakes and be the better man, and I can say we are making huge progress.
I am a scorpio male and I will have to say scorpio woman are the sexiest woman of any woman I have ever met, I think it's because I am a scorpio male.
Also when you ever decide to date a scorpio male, please please please keep this in mind.
If you make me jealous, even when I tell you I hate to jealousy, you will regret it.
Set boundaries, and rules. a 50/50 relationship is necessary and mandatory for this bond.
Hot passionate sex is mandatory. Public sex is very exciting, and suggested to keep the spark immense.
If your in a n argument use the words we, us. not i or me, helps lots.
Also never never never. Play with my head psychologically or use me pysically cuse I will get back to you ten times worse.
I need everything in a relationship, to me sex by itself is like jerking off at the computer so
offer us a challenge and sex, and also act loving and caring towards our needs. be fun, exciting, and mysterious and we will treat you like a goddess, queen, princess. the only one we will ever need and want forever.
we like games, only in the bedroom, or a secret game that nobody knows about that gets us both turned on,
*but not a game that fucks with our heads*
I am seriously attracted to scorpio woman
so don't make us jealous or feel a negative emotion when we are getting to know you
just to get your attention we will throw you out instantly!!!!!
INSTANTLY!!!!
I am dead serious.
Thought you could use a male perspective ladies. tata
Oh p.s. sometimes we like getting seduced too, because we always do the seducing. But ladies if you are trying to seduce a scorpio male
please please please keep this in mind
play hard to get but don't be unattractive about it.
Be attractive while seducing us and we will turn the table
It's a cat and mouse game sometimes in the beginning.
Play your role when the time comes and when the table has shifted to you, initiate
its like a game of tennis
it keeps going back and forth, but when the relationship starts things change, less of a tennis match and more of a boundary line.
I'm scorpio ascendant girl. I often hear from men that I'm very sexy. Some time ago it surprised me alot, cuz I didn't feel myself that way at all. But now I become aware of myself and the effects I can arouse in others, esp, in men. I must admit that sometimes I play with this. I only need to look in the man's eyes to charm him. Then it is hard to get rid of his attention. It is fantastic weapon to use when necessary. Although with women it's hard to get along. When I try to get friendly with them, I often feel rejected. But I don't bother myself with that, cuz I like men companionship alot more.
Scorpio female here. love it all. all the comments positive and negative. love how my sign makes people think and question everything. fantastic job!
hi ! i love your posts :D i have a request,it would be great if you could please post scorpio woman compatibility atleast with cancer male . thank you so much .
I'm a Scorpio female in a 5 year relationship with a Aries male and I'm enjoying all of these posts! These traits above fit me like a tee....The only trait that I find the sometimes annoying is the Scorpio's sensual vibe that you cannot hide!! ...don't get me wrong...it's an awesome Ora (when there is intention) but when some men feel that it's there duty to approach you about it, even though you weren't putting yourself out there, it can get very uncomfortable.
But otherwise,
I <3 being a Scorpio woman
I am a scorpio woman and can relate to the major points here, except the admirer league and not wanting to be single. I do have help from lots of people over time but more on a friendly basis than by attraction. And I'm happily single or even single by choice.
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