That Beautiful Bull Girl

This post is dedicated to my great friend and confidant, Endra, and includes excerpts from the book, Sextrology.

The Taurian female is considered an earth mother, a living doll. According to Sextrology, out of all the signs of the zodiac, the term "hippy chic" was, most likely, coined from a Taurian female. Taurus feels her purpose is to create a little bit of heaven right here on earth.

A fun loving character who approaches life with childlike enthusiasm. She possesses a carefree sensibility and offers amusement to many. She can be likened to Snow White romping through the forest with bluebirds singing around her head.

She is ruled by the planet Venus, the Goddess of Love. Her signs planetary symbol is the Mirror of Aphrodite, thus the name for my blog. Her zodiac signs symbol is the almighty bull. Sextrology considers her "The Ideal." The feminine ideal. Everything men ever imagine a woman to be, the Taurian female may live up to. She most certainly will simply ooze with femininity. Adorning herself with all of the spoilings of a "girly girl." Bangles, toe rings, earrings, fashion handbags, scarves, and nary a hair out of place.

Taurian are said by Sextrology to have beautiful skin and eyes and can be quite attractive people in general, being ruled by the planet Venus, the planet of love. But for men who like a waif type woman, the Taurian female probably isn't for you. As in keeping with her sign's symbol of the bull, the typical Taurian female is a voluptuous type. Curves and soft lines abound and they can be thickset in the hips and legs, just like the bull. The Taurian female is a passive woman - a "come hither" type of woman - who beckons men to her, rather than seeking them out.

She's also the type of woman who won't play "clueless." If her plumbing goes, or her car breaks down - she'll climb under the sink or open the hood and see if she can't tackle this task on her own. Then she'll wrap up a day's hard work by putting on an apron, becoming June Cleaver all over again and whipping up dinner, then dropping the apron and dragging you off to the bedroom to play Tarzan and Jane.

Being an earth sign, our lady bull will be fond of the outdoors, gardening, camping, picnicing, and the like. Being the only fixed (immovable) earth (grounded, stable) sign in the zodiac, she'll also tend to be a homebody, someone whose stubborn, and will proceed through life slowly and deliberately.

Taurians are likened to the age range of 7-14, thus proceeding through life as if a teenager, experiencing everything for the very first time. This applies to her sexuality as well - and her voracious appetite for sex once she's coupled up. Her house is The First Quadrant, which is one of self and individual awareness. Her number is 2, a number of unity and sympathy.

In general, Taurians enjoy the domesticity in life. They enjoy cooking, taking care of others, gardening, a nice house, etc. They are a peaceful, docile, bunch. Until you've crossed the line and ignited that notorious Taurian temper. Did I say temper?

I meant rage.

It takes a lot to get the bull hot under the collar and they'll take a lot of heat before exploding, but once you've gone and done this, you'd better run. And chances are. . .if you've taken it that far - you deserve what your going to get. For it will soon become such a scene of colossal rage, the one who ignited the bull won't be able to find the door soon enough.

It goes something like this . . . . imagine our bull, grazing peacefully in a field of green grass. Pretty serene scene, huh? Now, imagine marching out onto that field and giving that bull a poke in the you-know-what? Chhaarrrgge!

Now you understand.

It's not easy to get a bull to move. In fact, it's not easy to get a bull to do anything it doesn't want to do. You can't push them over, you can't run them over, you can't pull them along, you can't coax them.

A bull moves slowly and deliberately through life, and only when it wants to move at all. Change is a dirty word to the bull. Being a fixed earth sign, they are rooted in pretty darn good. The best way to coax the stationary bull into action is through a long, slow process. A process of letting them accept it, familiarize with it, first.

You see, our lady bull, being as stationary as she is (a fixed earth sign), must find a place for this new action or activity in her life. Because she strives very hard to maintain consistency, as a fixed earth sign must. Life is consistent, patterned, some would even call it boring, for our bulls.

Don't get me wrong, a bull can enjoy themselves all well and good, and once they're comfortable in their surroundings - they can be great fun. However, the bull must be comfortable in the environment to do so first. Life to the bull is all about grazing and plodding along. A new activity, person, or action, must become familiar, slowly melded into her ever peaceful, stationary, existence.

Taurians can be seen as materialistic and greedy. It's not that they are, they just have a great fondness for the finer things in life. They will spend their lives filling their homes and spaces with beautiful things. Taurians are about the stimulation of the five senses. Surrounding themselves with beautiful things, stimulates these senses.

They have a particular fondness for music as this stimulates the senses as well. And Taurians are ruled by the throat - for all you men out there, this can be a big bonus for you (if you know what I mean.) Additionally, they can be very good singers, speakers, etc.

In friendships, relationships, and life in general, they are a loyal bunch indeed and it's not unusual to have a lifelong friend in this woman. She will defend you, come to your aid, or assist you, in anyway she can - if you are loyal to her as a friend or lover.

Just don't poke the bull.

When you've gone and crossed the line - and their sense of fair play has been outraged - you'll pay dearly. And chances are, end up with a broken heart, too. For the lady bull rarely looks back.

In love and relationships, our female bull is a caretaker, a nurturer, and a domestic goddess. Men, if you've suffered through many a painful relationship, the lady bull might just be the one for you. She's a sensual, sexual, creature by nature. Her earthy sensibility is applied to her sexuality as well.

Additionally, her appetite for sex can be likened to that of a teenage boy with raging hormones, thus her association to the age range of 7-14. Skipping through life like a teenager and, at times, impulsive and aggressive about her sexuality.

Considered by Sextrology the most naturally sexual of all the zodiac signs, Taurians are comfortable in their sexuality and view sex as a completely natural state between a man and a woman. Sex is not dirty to a female Taurian when performed between a man and a woman who care for one another.

But don't fool yourself into thinking that you'll catch this queen later in life for a quick romp in the hay - that won't happen. To the female Taurian, that would make sex "dirty." And if she views it as dirty, that would make it unnatural. Therefore, it simply will not take place. To Taurians, everything must be - and feel - natural.

Taurians are all about nature and natural cycles. Sex is a part of nature and the natural cycle of life. They like natural, not artificial, things. No fake flowers, real ones. No fake wooden furniture, real wood. No fake stone on the outside of your home, real ones. Nothing plastic, usually stoneware or earthern is preferred. No breast implants, only the real deal. No fake feelings, only real ones. No faux fur, no patten leather, no fake people - it's all the real deal here.

As comfortable as bulls are with their sexuality, they may not be with their skin. Being ruled by The First Quadrant of the mind, which is one of self-awareness, a lady bull may be very self-conscious. On the flip side, if she's settled into her skin, she can be quite the exhibitionist. She can be seen as vein, being that she's very aware of her image, and will go to great lengths to always make the best impression.

Taurians are the type that leaves the house with a full face on - to go grocery shopping.

Early in life, the lady bull will make many mistakes with bad boy types. She's comfortable with her sexuality and may tend to pursue older, popular, or rowdy types, at a young age. The lady bull feels she's equally sexually knowledgeable at a tender age. Being that she's somewhat naive, likened to Snow White skipping through the forest, she's not the best judge of character early in life.

It is only through her failures with these bad boy types that our bull learns to be much more discerning with men later in life. Once this has happened, casual, meaningless sex has no place in the female Taurian's existence. She will pick carefully, sizing her potential mate up. He must be worthy and sexually equal. It is at this point, she will only invite those into her bedroom that she can envision a possible future with. Riff raff ends up out at the curb, real men are invited inside.

And when it comes to men in general for the lady bull, only real men need apply. No whimps, no sissy boys. Real MEN. A take charge kind of guy who leads in life, decisions, and the bedroom. You see, Taurians are passive by nature. Generally not aggresive in personality. They like control but don't necessarily want to "wear the pants" in a relationship. So if she's going to relinquish control and ride the waves with her man - he's got to be a real man.

This applies to the bedroom as well. Taurian females do not wish to lead there. They want to be man-handled, so-to-speak, and prefer submissive positions such as missionary. You see, the lady bull loves nothing more than to be "taken" by a man. According to Sextrology, Taurian females are most in their element - in bed. That naturally occuring state between a man and a woman where traditional gender roles apply. Man leads, woman submits.

Sex is instinctual to her and she approaches her sexuality unabashedly and without inhibition, as long as it's natural. More Taurians, than any other sign, tend to marry their first true love. The female bull longs for a traditional relationship, one that fills customary traditional gender roles. Feeling the ultra-feminine force of her sign and being materially minded, she's anxious to begin adult life at an early age. Her motto: "I Have". . .rarely being one of the have-nots.

Our lady bull is forever taking up hobbies, but may be more of a dabbler. She is conscious of her belief system. For what the Taurian female holds true, is powerfully endowed and sacred to her.

No other woman enjoys being a girl more than the bull girl. She is all about the exploration of femininity and sexuality. Sextrology considers her the sign of sexual response.

And her greatest goal in life: Is to be worthy to have lived it.