Ooooh, the Taurus male, an attractive man, indeed - the dude obscure. "Huh? What the hell is he trying to say?" That's what you'll be saying.
Our Taurus male bulls are a smoldering, sexy, bunch of men. He operates behind the scenes, always keeping his intentions guarded and others in a constant state of guessing. Taurus man is a man of reaction - not one of action. He forces others to play their hand before revealing his own. He disarms others, especially women, by playing coy - to the point of acting "clueless."
According to the Sextrology horoscope, the Taurus male wants others to think he has no agenda - but, you see, that IS our steamy, male bull's agenda. To disarm - and make others feel comfortable around him, all the while, he's working his angle behind the scenes. By doing so, our the Taurus man leads a rather stress-free life. He hangs back in situations, being the master of all he surveys. This ones like a kid in the candy store of life. A huge appetite for pleasure, but lacking the inability to exert abstinence or self-discipline.
Taurus men are all about the stimulation of the five senses, come hither kind of guys.
At times, our Taurus male bulls, prone to lack self-discipline, tend to overstimulate these senses. Some, falling prone to the darker side of their traits, can become victims of alcoholism, sexual addiction, gambling, drugs, etc. Sextrology considers the male bull "The Idol." A Taurus man's lifelong goal is to be idolized, idolized, idolized - and worshipped by others. He is a fixed (immovable) earth (grounded, stable) sign. The Sextrology horoscope explains, his quadrant is The First Quadrant, which is that of self awareness. His number is 2, which is that of unity. Taurus is represented by the age range of 7-14, like that of a teenager. Forever viewing things in life as if it's the first time he's ever experienced them.
His Libido is Comparable to That of a Teenager
Taurus man is hormonally raging and forever seeking an outlet. His ruling planet is fittingly, Venus, which is that of love and romance. Venus represents femininity. The Taurus male is in opposition to the Aries male here, whereas the Aries male is ruled by Mars, which represents masculinity. The Taurus man won't be a hard pressed man's man. Therefore, he plays a rather submissive role in life and in relationships.If you ask the Taurus male where he'd like to go for dinner that night, most likely, his response will be, "Wherever you'd like to go." He's not much of a decision maker and, honestly, doesn't prefer to wear the pants in a love relationship. The Taurus man is looking for stability. He'll attach himself to a woman who knows what she wants, and is making tracks towards it. He'll ride her skirt tails off into the sunset. He's cryptic to say the least, and when engaged in conversation with the male bull, you may get the feeling he's trying to tell you something, but won't come right out and say it. A Taurus man may leave you confounded, saying "What? Huh? Just spit it out dude."
The Taurus Male is a Somewhat Twisted Thinker Who Tends to go Against the Grain
According to the Sextrology horoscope, Taurus male feels it's his birthright to remain obscure. He shrouds himself in mystery, and likes it that way. He knows the power of provocation - and uses this to his advantage. Taurus man draws people and situations to him by doing so. He sees the value in becoming what others wish for him to be - even if it's an elusion. It's surely one that he'll work very hard to maintain.This behavior gets the Taurus male farther in life and without much effort having to be placed into it. He finds that he usually doesn't have to fight for that which he wants. He waits, he watches, he evaluates. He's a strategist. Once his goals are securable and within his reach - he charges straight for them. A Taurus man is not a risk taker by nature.
A Taurus man plans and plots, waiting for his desires to ultimately reveal themselves to him.
Don't be Fooled by Taurus Male Passivity
It's actually a very powerful force he has working to his advantage. The Taurus male motto, according to the Sextrology horoscope profile, is this, "I Will". . . . have you in the palm of my hands. And most times, you won't even know it. He likes to possess things, and people, and will begin acquiring them at an early age. A Taurus man tends to build his own small harem of worshippers in life. He may pal around with younger individuals that look up to him in some way. He may develop a harem of female admirers on the side, of whom he will always refer to as only "friends." But in reality, they are more like "plan B." A dating pool of sorts, from which he can pull from at his leisure, if need be, or if his preferred stable relationship should happen to sour in his eyes.And by souring, I mean if you stop worshipping him and the idol that he envisions himself to be. But the Taurus man will remain in the stable relationship, he's all about stability and very little effort. He will simply begin to operate behind the scenes to take his gratification from life there - as opposed to where he's no longer receiving it. When this happens, he may trot out to pasture and begin socializing behind the barn with those bovines that have admired him from afar. All the while, maintaining his stable, comfortable, situation inside the barn - so as not to loose it.
In ancient times, bovines were symbols of worship. Viewed as God's of Fertility. Fitting for Taurus men, as this is how they perceive themselves mentally. Taurus men are focused on terrestrial pleasures - again, the stimulation of those five senses he holds so dear. In the workplace, he'll make himself the golden boy to the higher ups. According to the Sextrology horoscope, a Taurus man strokes those in power and plays up to his docile, compliant, demeanor he shows them. You see, to the Taurus male, everyone has a value - a price. This price he places on you will directly relate to how valuable you are to him - to how far latching onto you might actually take him.
He Cultivates Familiar Ground
Unlike our Aries brother who tends to seek greener pastures, the Taurus male is always tilling around in the garden of life. Cultivating, fertilizing, watering - and hoping to see something grow from it, from the familiar scenes he working at the time. The Taurus male is always inspiring others to fall for him. Again, the "I Will". . .have you in the palm of my hand, Taurus male motto comes into play.Taurus males may have been raised by an overbearing mother and a father figure that is viewed by his as a passive individual. This is where he begins to learn this behavior early in life. Dad may be psychologically absent in the marriage, and many times, may have a more compliant woman on the side. Thus instilling in the Taurus man that a man's attentions are diverted elsewhere.
As a result, the Taurus man attempts to overcompensate for his passive father's behavior and becomes a consort to his mother, who puts the screws to her boy. She begins making most of his decisions in life and controlling his every move. Thus, teaching the male bull his signature behavior. "Be who you are expected to be by others, take a passive stance, and role with the blessings of doing so through life." She teaches him that he will be rewarded for this - by having someone else do all of the hard work for him.
A backlash to this is that the mother tends to lavish misguided affections - meant for his father - onto her son. She stifles him and as a result, the Taurus man views relationships as unstable, and he directs his goals towards acquiring material things in life like money and security, instead. The Taurus male is the strong, silent, smoldering, type. According to the Sextrology horoscope, he decides very early in life that the less said - the better. He projects his sensuality as a nonthreatening type to women and he projects and understated charm.
Not all of our Taurus males will find themselves exhibiting all of the behavior listed above. Many a male bull makes a great, committed, husband and lover. And they will go to great lengths to be the perfect husband or lover that you envision them to be. As an earth sign, Taurus males may enjoy camping, hiking, outdoor sports, etc. They will, most likely, be homebodies who like to linger around the house and their familiar comfort zones. Taurus individuals are notoriously loyal to friends, family and lovers. But don't let your male bull feel as if you've lost your admiration for him - that the "shine" has worn off.
The Taurus Male Wants to be Wanted in the Worst Way
A Taurus man is immensely strong yet passive, obtaining a soft side to him. Taurus men will suffer immensely inside if they no longer see the sparkle in your eye.* * * * *
Many thanks to the book Sextrology: The Astrology of Sex and the Sexes written by Starsky and Cox. The above piece contains my thoughts along with excerpts and borrowings from the book and for any of you that don't own this, I'd advise you have at least one copy of it somewhere in your house. I consider it the "bible" of astrological profiles. If you've ever wanted to decipher the mysteries of men and women, sex and astrological behavior by sign and gender - this is a must have piece for your collection.
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Had one of these for a husband - dead on to a T. Watch em'!
These guys can be sneaky - but incredibly loveable, too.
I find that male Taurians are a bit of a whacky bunch that at times are hard to read. Nonetheless, very down to earth and extremely caring when they are devoted.
I've been with a Taurian Male for four years now... married to him for just 8 months.
They're very down to earth individuals and very devoted to family, friends and loved ones (you). Don't ever try bad-mouthing or giving a poor opinion of family or friends as they'll defend them to the death, and they'll do the same for you as well. They want peace with everyone and don't like conflict of any type (they don't feel it's ever appropriate or necessary).
It takes a lot to get them mad, but when they do watch out... they'll not talk to you and will shut you out. I have a tendency to harp a bit when I'm angry, which is the wrong approach, and once I'm in that mode I can't get out (especially if I'm passionate about what I'm upset about). His anger could last for a day or two, and then it's like it never ever happened... very weird!
They'd give their last dollar to someone, even if they didn't know them... with no thought on how it would impact him/or you for that matter.
Not too big on making everyday conversation... unless it short and sweet (e.g., to the point) They don't like confrontation at all and will pretend it doesn't exist... saying "things will work out, just see".
Very trusting individuals to the point where people (e.g., friends and family) can walk all over them and do, and they don't even realize it. They're good natured and caring individuals, so unethical or knieving individuals could walk all over them and they wouldn't be the wiser. As a spouse who loves my man it bothers me that he can't see what others do and I feel like I have to protect him as he can't see what's going on (very trusting).
Don't ever betray their trust, otherwise you will be out on your butte. Trust and respect is a must!
Stubborn is an understatment if they're firm about something you're discussing or that they believe in... there will be NO WAY to change their mind at all, regardless how much you try to discuss it... which by the way will only piss them off, and you'll only get into an argument... it's really NOT worth pursuing!
They're great "significant others" and/or "spouses". Very hard workers while doing their paid jobs, but they seem a bit lazy (couch potato or bed potato) when they get home, just wanting to "Relax" (as they say). Don't get me wrong, you can pry them from that couch or bed as long as there is something better they might be interested in... otherwise go do your own thing... unless you'd like to "relax" with them. They don't like doing much around the house unless they have to or want to.
Very sensual by nature... almost like animal magnetism or something. They draw you in and then you're hooked. They wait to see that you're receptive to something before approaching you or the subject (almost like they're afraid of rejection or something.
Exceedingly generous in bed and never wanting to rush things and wanting to take things slow. And yes, they do have the stamina of a "Bull", even in bed!
Speaking about slow... they don't like to be rushed into anything, unless it's something they want... and only after they've thought about it for what seems like forever does it happen. In our relationship "we" talk about things and the "action" tends to come much sooner than later.
They take their sweet time when it comes to making decisions. They'll talk about it a lot, but the "action" part won't take place until they're completely ready.
They're great dads as well, though have a tendency to let their kids do what they want (e.g., set their own rules, etc.) which doesn't work with me. Since Taurians don't like to be told what to do, I personally believe that "Rules" (even for children) are perceived as something bad and negative... when it's only because you care and you're trying to monitor/supervise the child.
All in all, and depending what your sun sign is (mine is Aries), you are in for a fun ride when dealing with this astrology sign.
For me, I absolutely love my Taurian man and for us being so opposite in astrology traits is what makes things work for the two of us. As an Aries I'm a bit head-strong, wanting to do things as I think of them and not wanting to wait, whereas with Taurus they want to think about it for a while. He pulls me out of my "impulsive modes", where I pull him out of his "comfort-zone slump" so to speak. It's a good mix for our relationship and keeps things vivacious and yet still spontaneous.
Maybe if I was a young girl the Taurian personality might seem a bit boring, but as an adult, it's a good mixture with my personality and astrological traits.
Signed: AriesWoman
I have two bulls at work who BOTH seem to be attracted to me. One is very outspoken about it and the other guy just watches me a lot.(I know poor me.)But, I'm really slow to decide a man is right for me. Aries woman, how do I keep the attraction going until I know them a little better? I don't want to make one jealous of the other or vice versa! I really find likeable qualities in both of them.
"Our male bull tends to build his own small harem of worshippers in life. He may pal around with younger individuals that look up to him in some way. He may develop a harem of female admirers on the side, of whom he will always refer to as only "friends." But in reality, they are more like "plan B." A dating pool of sorts, from which he can pull from at his leisure, if need be, or if his preferred stable relationship should happen to sour in his eyes."
If thats the case, how can a taurus stay loyal to his partner when there are so many tempertation out there for them? Would that make them not want to put more effort into his own current relationship if there were not going right?
sigh, taurus males. i have been involved with quite a few, romantically and professionally, and they have been the ones who hurt me most. they're so appealing on many levels yet SO frustrating to me (i'm a sagittarius female). i'm hankering after a new one right now, actually. the saga continues...
I am a Leo woman married to a Taurian male and I could not agree with it more!
If I am devoting all of my generous attentions to him, he is happy and chatty but as soon as I have other things to attend to he starts looking around for someone or something else to amuse or give him attention!
Still when it comes down to it, no matter what he has done wrong. If I am about to give up and end it, he will do anything to make it better.
That is the only thing that makes this sign's sometimes obnoxious or devious behavior forgivable!
Yet he is also the type to forgive me, no matter what I have done and no matter how naughty it is!
Though my Taurian brother has not discovered this sort of forgiveness yet. He is 15 years younger then my spouse. So I could also say they mellow and grow into their skin much more with age!
I am an Aries women and completely head over heels for this taurian man, who i am good friends with, even though we currently live in different countries, i cannot get him out of my head !
They are so difficult to read, one minute in your life, then vanish for days, then back in cotnact. How do you know they are interested. Are they honest with there words when they say they want to see you etc? How do i know !!
im a taurian and 85% of what you said there is BS
i'm a scorpio and i totally agreed with the obnoxious behavior a taurian man can act. they are self centered - everything is about me, me and me; attention seeker - always giving out instructions for others to serve him; womanizer - a long list of gals contacts in FB for constant entertainments while dating me...i can go on and on...
i'm fedup and disappointed w/ him and trying very hard to get myself out of this nightmare. at the end of the day, it's just a big waste of my time. i should be a happy person, and don't deserve to be treated such way.
Not when your making a symbolic, mythical character association like this: http://www.santharia.com/bestiary/taurian.htm
And both spellings are widely used and widely accepted. . .
taurian loves cancer so match these two sign are extremely compatible.15yrs.of marriage.
I'm a married "feeling" woman (sign withheld but you'll get it if you want to) in love with a married Taurus -- friends for a very long time, years later gotten closer, online only. We love our spouses but we also love each other, at least I'm fairly certain he's telling the truth when he says he does, even when it's to his advantage to tell me he doesn't.
His guilt has broken us up twice now with the first time being short lived. I know I sound selfish and believe me, I never would have expected to be in this situation but "I feel" that this is the man I'm meant to be with. We are really, perfect in every way and he gets me more than any man ever has, including my husband. I love everything about him -- even the stubborn streak. I didn't expect him to leave his wife and I didn't know where we were going, I just know that we were meant to get to wherever that is, together.
My reason for commenting is that I'm reading these things because I got him back once and I need him back again. I'm sorry for the other players in our lives but how often in our lives do you truly find that one person IF you ever find them at all? I'm not young, inexperienced and I have had my share of relationships. It's never been like this. I don't expect that it ever will be again. I know he loves me just as deeply but honor and promise are his focus right now with this being a second marriage and actually a new one. How do you show a Taurus man like that that sometimes what looks right, isn't what is right at all, just expected and get him to take the risk to find out if it's our great love?
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