The Aries are a fiery bunch. As such, love and romance with an Aries will certainly create its fair share of sparks. The best way to fan those flames of love is to take a lesson from their ruling planet, Mars, the God of War. Strange advice, huh? Not really, when you break it down. You see, Aries loves a challenge. Remove the challenge, remove the fun. Conquering things is one of their specialties - and
also one of their favorite past times. Playing hard to get will get you a long way with this bunch. It incites that Aries fire, the call-to-arms. If Aries views you as something rather "unbreakable" in spirit, you will be quite attractive to them and they will seek to conquer you. Problem is, once they've gone and done that, they might scat for greener pastures sooner than you prefer. There's a very fine line that one must learn to balance to keep an Aries by your side. Never let yourself truly be owned by one. If you do, the situation will soon become so boring and unexciting to them that you'll see nothing but their hind end scampering up over the mountain on the way to their next conquering adventure. Feisty is the stuff Aries lives for. Ever see those couples in the movies screaming obscenities at one another and tossing lamps at each other - then suddenly find themselves locked in a passionate embrace leading each other up to the bedroom? That's a superb representation of Aries energy in love. Passionate, fiery, feisty, gladiators and conquering warriors.
Aries females like to dominate and weakness is a ticket to "the highway." An Aries females call-to-arms is not so much applied to others, as it is with the Aries male,
but more so to herself. Aries female is determined to be - and remain - who she is. Who she is, is a woman in a man's world fighting to prove everyone wrong. She'll fight tooth and nail on maintaining her independence and freedom while in a relationship. If she can push you around, she'll bore with you and move on. Fire back, and you've peaked her curiosity. To walk the line with the Aries female, when she pushes, stumble back 5 steps, then stabilize, and come right back at her with a passionate kiss and groping hands. Give her enough room to exert her will (by taking 5 steps back) and she'll calm down. An Aries female friend of mine always says,
"I just like to know that I can be free. I do things to remind myself, and him, of that every once in a while." Aries female will always fight for her opinions and independence in a relationship, so you'd better be prepared to give her some breathing room to keep her around because you will never truly own or possess her.
Challenge her - and always take sexual advantage of those heated moments.Aries males are a bit less complicated, more cut-and-dry. I know an Aries male who once described courting a woman like this,
"She's a feisty one. If she gets spooked, she'll buck you and flee" to which a friend of his responded,
"Are we talking about a woman here - or are we talking about Seabiscuit?" This statement really gives you a nice glimpse into the conquering mentality of an Aries male. Most men would say,
"Screw this, I'm outta here" whereas the Aries male says,
"Hmm, I think I can break her. If not, I'd like to die trying."Readers be advised, some of the bits below are saucy dishes served up with a side of raunch . . .
Aries Aries Cosmic Compatibility
Aries Male + Aries Female = The UltimateLet the sparks fly! A rare duo that seems to feel a sense of "urgency" upon meeting one another. Aries male is a walking, talking hard-on, if you will, and Aries female seeks to get a rise out of him, if not have him literally by the balls. An Aries female will make an Aries male even more of a he-man than he already is, if you can believe that. These two affect one another's 1st House of individualisation and both have a strong need to exert swollen egos. They are potentially at odds with one another and as a result, this bond usually ends just about the way it began - as a fire that burned fast, hot, then ran out of fuel died out.
Sexually speaking, the Aries male can never quite be bored with an Aries female as he will continually be seeking to satiate her ever burning fire. Sextrology Cosmic Coupling states,
"No couple is in as perpetual a state of heat as these two." Their lust is palpable in the company of others and together, they are far more assertive than individually. Lookout world! Aries male will brag of her insatiability and Aries female will let it slip that it takes a superman to satisfy her. Aries male reveals that she's boisterous and an exhibitionist, Aries female reveals that she likes to fight back. Aries male will follow up with the fact that he's the only man that can physically, literally, pin her down. It's a "braggarts buffet" and a feeding frenzy has ensued.
Sextrology states,
"He's on a quest, she's out of reach. Less ladylike than he sometimes longs for, he's so in-her-face it hurts. Both willful to the core, neither ones gives up without a fight. Two fierce libidos means a fair amount of sexual urgency." Sex for these two isn't to be savored, it's a full-throttle ride to completion. Yeehaw!
Aries Taurus Cosmic Compatibility
Aries Male + Taurus Female = The ClassicIn this pairing, Taurus female is the woman behind the man. This duo can become quite a power couple and excelled in business practices together. He's a feisty initiator and she's a practical power house. They fit together like puzzle pieces. Aries male represents masculinity and Taurus female represents femininity. Taurus female is longing to be swept off her feet and Aries male is the knight in shining armor that fits the bill. Opposites attract and Aries male is ruled by Mars while Taurus female is ruled by Venus. It's the classic Mars/Venus pairing and is more than a natural fit. Taurus female prizes a hefty bankroll and security and Aries male has the go-getter attitude that provides it.
Sexually speaking, Aries male and Taurus female can tend to lead separate lives during the day and may have different tastes in fun and friends. However, they come home for dinner, dim those lights and divergent needs and desires give rise to connubial perfection. Sextrology Cosmic Coupling states,
"Aries has met his match in the super-receptive Taurus female. Totally in her element on her back, she poses a challenge to the Aries male ram to live up to his animal totem." There will be frequency in a given night with this pairing. For Aries, it is better to give than to receive and Taurus understands and seeks to satisfy.
Sextrology states,
"She's his ultra-feminine ideal, he fulfills the fantasy of stud with a enterprising spirit. As a couple - they're a classic. Taurus boasts of being the woman behind the man. In bed, she's the mistress to his lusty master." Purposefully remaining strangers locks in a certain freshness that keeps this bond alive long after others "hit the wall."
Aries Female + Taurus Male = The CounterpointWhat can I say? It's another success story. The Mars ruled Aries female and the Venus ruled Taurus male are a sexy duo. She's a take charge kinda gal and he's a compliant follower. Aries females assertive nature balances Taurus males passive one. Her masculine ruled sign is the yang for his yin ruled feminine one. Taurus male explores emotions and Aries female acts them out. He values security and she seeks intellectual pursuits. Rubbing off on one another contributes to this couples "having it all."
Sexually speaking, Taurus male loves being on the receiving end and Aries female is an initiator who takes charge. Aries female reaches out and touches something, usually his package. Taurus male likes to be objectified and treated as a sex object and Aries female likes to dominate and display aggression. Sextrology Cosmic Coupling states,
"Role reversal may indeed remain a vivid theme for these two." Aries female likes to watch a guy squirm and Taurus male writhes under her spell. But here's a surprise! They may be equally likely to stray, Aries female due to brattiness and Taurus male due to continual worship seeking. Swinging isn't out of the question here, but it must be at her insistence.
Sextrology states,
"She sees vast carnal possibilities. He's slow to read her blatant signals: Aries unfussy demeanor is what finally fastens his affection. Sex is a psychological affair where roles are reversed and master/servant fantasies are explored." This combo is most compatible on a sexual level and can become quite divine over time.
Aries Gemini Cosmic Compatibility
Aries Male + Gemini Female = The HeatGemini female is a major flirt that woos the Aries male in a single instant. She's a playful sprite buzzing around the rams head while he's trying to graze. The fact that he can't swat this pesky nymph away draws his curiosity to inspect closer. Gemini female flightiness gives rise to Aries male curiosity and a desire to "pin this one down." For Aries male, overt proposals bring about suspicion, however, Gemini female is the zodiac's premier provocateur and she does so with such subtlety that Aries male thinks it's his idea. Gemini female is a sucker for forbidden fruit and the Aries male is the apple with a big red X on it. He senses the bulls-eye on his forehead and retracts a bit which fuels her determination even more. Gemini female is drawn like a moth to a flame to Aries male, but our trouble making little sprite may get her wings scorched.
Sexually speaking, it's erotically charged. If the relationship settles into a permanent one, it will become more of a "meeting of the minds." Gemini female stimulates his 3rd House of learning and her questions and challenges motivate Aries male. He seeks to educate and elevate her while she forces him to face the dirty little inner workings of his mind. Essentially, Gemini female can become his muse. The hallmark of this bond is kindred affection. The Gemini vixen plays catch-me catch-me and he willingly obliges. She squirms, protests and pleads which spurns his desire - not to mention his gigantic ego.
Sextrology states,
"She's a fresh pixie to deflower, he's the brute she can't resist. Often purely physical at first, this relationship is usually founded on friendship. Sexually she's tireless and he has the staying power to satisfy her." Gemini female puts on quite an act for the Aries male and the bond can morph into an eternal source of inspiration and lifelong bond of friendship.
Aries Female + Gemini Male = The HappeningThis pair can be trouble, but getting into it is loads of fun. Both welcome a bit of mischief into the mix he sense he doesn't need kid gloves with her. They become fast friends and pal around as Gemini males swashbuckling personal plays on her looking at his Peter Pan syndrome as an asset. The Aries female tomboy style merges well with the Gemini males streetsy sensibility. Sextrology Cosmic Coupling states, "These two create their own combined brand of bohemianism." Aries rules his 11th House of revolutionary thought and, as such, he aspires to "achieve" her. Gemini governs Aries 3rd House of intimate relationships and together, they will cultivate a community all their own.
Sexually speaking, there are instances when this pairing lasts forever and if not, it's fun while it lasts. Sex for the Aries female and Gemini male is exciting and aggressive. With Aries female, he's artful and peppery, a sprinkling here, a dollop there. A master of oral, Gemini male takes the Aries females body on as a landscape of sorts to explore. For Aries female, Gemini males next moves are hard to predict, which satisfies and excites her all the same as it forces her to stay in the moment instead of, in typical Aries fashion, racing to the finish line. She likes to dominate him and they make for good "F buddies" or his proverbial "other woman." Secret swinging isn't out of the question here.
Sextrology states,
"They'll take a party approach to life. He's a rousing, robust, sexual ride; she seems built for speed. A sordid one-night stand could fuse them as best friends. They're a liberated pair, threesomes are standard." Upping the ante here can become the Aries females preoccupation - which could result in Gemini male folding the bond.
Aries Cancer Cosmic Compatibility
Aries Male + Cancer Female = The FairytaleCancer female is as much the zodiac's damsel in distress and Aries male is it's knight in shining armor. This dynamic often exists in this pairing, even if both parties of unaware of it and they usually encounter one another early in life. Cancer rides ever existing emotional waves and struggles in youth and Aries . . . well, the Aries male is simply a sucker for tears. Aries male feels it's a woman's gender role to be the weaker of the species and what better way to express your vulnerability than through tears. Cancer female, the zodiac's Moonchild, often presents a giggly personal to the Aries male. Sextrology Cosmic Coupling states,
"If there's one thing the Aries male can't resist, it's a lady with locked-in freshness." Chemistry is so strong, it's palpable.
Sexually speaking, sex is at the core of everything in this relationship. It's the glue that binds and if the glue ages and begins to flake away, so too, does the pairing. Aries may soon find that Cancer female is more than weepy at times and can be rather tumultuous in her emotions. It's a bit too much for the stoic Aries male. If they ignore these fissures, they can become caught up in "keeping up with appearances." Aries male really lets go with Cancer females no-holds-barred approach to the boudoir and he checks his Clark Kent cape at the door. She wants it a lot and he gives it a lot. Bondage may show up in the bedroom and they may have a "den" in the basement. While Aries is usually admonished for his swagger, Cancer female praises him for it.
Sextrology states,
"She's a Cinderella inspiring his signature rescue fantasies. He's a self-professed knight in shining armor, all chiseled features and noble intentions. Codependency is a pitfall, but loving support makes them stronger. Sex is a healing experience." Although they appear as decent citizens in the light of day, it becomes very decadent in the din of night. Visitors - always knock first!
Aries Female + Cancer Male = The FixIn this pairing, there's a little bit of drama on order for the Aries female. Cancer male assumes Aries female is low maintenance due to her cool nature, but soon, the fire in her eyes becomes apparent to him. Aries female and Cancer male usually come together when one or both require emotional healing and the lack of intensity makes Cancer male think it's casual - when nothing could be further from the truth in Cancer females eyes. Cancer rules Aries 4th House of natural home life, creating stability. Aries governs Cancers 10th House of status, and the relationship fosters a degree of honor. The bond proves motivational for Cancer male. He wants a doting mommy type and the pitfall here is that those type of "needy" love bonds are only healthy for parents and children - not lovers.
Sexually speaking, 4th and 10th House affects prove challenging. In the boudoir, Cancer male craves emotional symbiosis and Aries female likes it cut and dry. Fetish and fantasy may enter the bedroom and he really enjoys her ta-tas. Cancer male isn't squeamish in the bedroom and Aries female may "rub his nose in it." He won't complain as fluids are fun for this water sign. There's not a lot of passion here, but there may be a lot of out-and-out boinking as they each work out their emotional wounds via one another's bodies. Aries female requires a cling-free zone and Cancer male has an urge to merge. But all in all, the challenges that this pairing may experience are least likely to surface in the boudoir.
Sextrology states,
"The attraction is subtle, less physically felt, rather more subconscious. Their pairing is antidotal - an emotional cure for past pain. He provides the support she's sought. Sex exorcises ex-lovers." There's always something new to negotiate in this bond, but the upside is that there's never a dull moment.
Aries Leo Cosmic Compatibility
Ares Male + Leo Female = The GlowThese two aren't subtle about much, including their interest in one another. The Aries male approaches the Leo female as if to say, "Do you really think you're all that you think you are?" With a firm gaze, Leo female growls "yes." Leo female prizes energy and passion so the more over-the-top the Aries male is, the better. Activity is what keeps this pair moving forward. Leo rules Aries 5th House of games and amusement, flings and love affairs. Aries governs Leo's 9th House of higher mind and he gets her thinking about life's big questions. Neither one likes to be taught new tricks and a disconnect may ensue. Each are authorities on everything and neither wishes to change.
Sexually speaking, if Leo female is in it just for kicks, then Aries male is her guy. But the Leo needs to see love in her king's eyes and if she doesn't, this pair will go no further than the dating stage. Aries male is selfish and aggressive but Leo female squints and pretends he finds her irresistible. Leo female has trouble separating love from sex. She's a screamer and she'll mutter those 3 words to the Aries male in the middle of the act. Sextrology states, "Suddenly what was meant to be just a casual thing is inspiring visions of boiled rabbits bobbing in his head." Uh oh - fatal attraction. Their both major egoists so mirrors and camcorders may join the mix. Leo is the undisputed queen of the zodiac and many men fall short to play her long-term counterpart. It takes a strong Aries knight to fill this bill.
Sextrology states,
"Her stealth and self-confidence suggest the vigorous sex he craves. Beyond a mutually intense first attraction, Aries and Leo have their traditional ethics in common. It will always feel like an elicit affair - forbidden, exhilarating." Leo female welcomes a consort if a king isn't in the stars or currently available. But even poor Lancelot couldn't get his shit together for Guinevere.
Aries Female + Leo Male = The GoldThese two prize one another and mutual trophydom exists. Sextrology Cosmic Coupling states,
"Somewhere conscious, this couple literally prize one another, each "medaling" in the long competition of love." Each recognizes an aura of coolness in one another and Leo male is full of himself which acts like an aphrodisiac for Aries female. In many pairings, Aries female feels she's slumming it - but not so with Mr. Lion King. To her, he represents a universe that she's fully ready to dip her toes into and explore. Leo represents the Father Principle and Aries is immediately hooked on his "big daddy" trip. Leo male appreciates a man's woman and authenticity. With Aries female, what you see is what you get. Doesn't get much more authentic than that.
Sexually speaking, they keep it simple in many ways. Neither is big on emotions and both are determined to live life on an even keel and no other zodiac pairing is more focused on straightforward "effing" than this one. What lacks for bells and whistles is made up for in sheer animal energy. Physical is the name of the game here. Leo male enjoys sex when it's a workout and Aries female requires one to be truly fulfilled. Aries female says,
"Finally!" It's the pounding she's been pining for and there's a certain film-style that enters the bedroom.
Bow chicka-chicka bow - you get the idea. They like angry sex and vent aggression in the boudoir and can be cutting towards each other at times.
Sextrology states,
"Love at first sight. He sees an easy coexistence, she finds her alpha-male match. A hot affair that quickly becomes committed. A threat to domestic bliss: her dalliances. In bed, there are no bells and whistles; ecstasy is automatic." Leo male has threesome fantasies and Aries female can show another woman who's boss. Indeed, these two can become predatory. Although that might divert their attention away from . . . err, well - themselves.
Aries Virgo Cosmic Compatibility
Aries Male + Virgo Female = The PuzzleVirgo female strikes Aries male as a woman of quality and Virgo female is attracted to Aries males ubermasculinity. Aries male is riveted by her curves and even though earth girls are easy, she doesn't just give it away. Virgo female is chaste and reminiscent of a best friends kid sister and Aries male sees a good girl he can take home. Her attraction to the ram is sexual and she'll give him the lead. Aries male is required to make the first move here or this never even gets off the ground. He's a loose cannon and she's putty in his hands; he feels sanctioned as the master in this pairing and Virgo females motto is "I serve." This bond either works or it doesn't. He comes to rely on her and a role reversal occurs - she can pull the rug out from underneath him.
Sexually speaking, Aries is a straight shooter and Virgo is unsatiable and viscerally attuned. Aries male views sex with Virgo female as a journey of sorts. She's tantric in her sexuality and he's into intense quickies. Her attraction to him makes for more than a few marathon sessions between these two. Aries rules Virgo's 8th House of sex and the houses motto is "We have." Virgo governs Aries 6th House of service and she'll spend many happy moments on her knees, complete with blind fold and collar. He objectifies women and worships Virgo for her passivity. He considers her a sexual superior and strives to properly satisfy. Endurance being the key. Toys are a Virgo's stock trade and even though Aries male isn't naturally inclined, he obliges.
Sextrology states,
"She seems pure as the driven snow; he embodies the ambition she finds so attractive. He'll accept her patronage: she may manage his career, if not his life. Often, needs are in conflict. Still, sex is a revelation." There is no end to the sexual potential with Virgo female and Aries male increasingly finds himself being taken hostage by her serviceability.
Aries Female + Virgo Male = The PactVirgo male is a skeptic and Aries female is a trampler of rose colored glasses who gets a giggle out of him. Virgo males attraction to Aries female is a representation of casual sex and she feels much the same about him. She is defensive and removed and he is enigmatic and guarded; together they find solitude in this undemanding company. This pairing has a transformation effect on one another as a means of regeneration. With a surplus of emotional space, this bond can be blissful. Virgo male likes to be cuckolded and Aries female is up to the task. They are matter-of-fact about life and together, focus on functionality. There's an icy edge to this pair as together - they remain individuals. Over time, a psychic connection forms and they become more kindred.
Sexually speaking, Virgo is an intricate chap whilst Aries female is anything but complicated to him. For Aries female in this pair, sex may seem that love's got nothing to do with it, but this seems to be the way they like it. They are not affectionate and focus on the physical. It's a horny bond but one that helps Virgo turn over a new leaf. Virgo male is psychologically complicated and can shut down. He has sexual kinks to work out and Aries female uses him as a sexual tool to get her rocks off. Virgo is the zodiacs voyeur and Aries is a performer. He likes to play doctor and she soon becomes a patient. Virgo male goes for humiliation and Aries female likes to dominate. In extreme cases, he'll watch her get it on with other guys, playing the role of janitor, cleaning up afterwards.
Sextrology states,
"They're a mystery to each other. Best case scenario: This match means positive psychological change. When challenged, it disallows personal growth. With her, he's free to explore kinkier proclivities." Virgo male receives the cool companionship he requires without the responsibility that frightens him. Perceived as a shaky pairing by others, the bond can ultimately become a win-win.
Aries Libra Cosmic Coupling
Aries Male + Libra Female = The CompoundA classic case of opposites attract. Libra female appreciates Aries males straightforward attitude and he is found of this woman of etheric qualities. Aries male pours on the brutish charm and treats Libra female like a fragile glass. She portrays Aries males noble attitude. They two never really fuse as one, however. The relationship becomes a combination of each of their individual pursuits. It becomes a partnership, one that may even include a contract of sorts. Aries and Libra mutally affect one anothers 7th House, that of law, justic, karma and legal affairs. Aries male accepts Libra female as his good luck charm and together they draw an air of "we're lucky to know them" from others and this couple can come of more than a bit holier-than-thou.
Sexually speaking, aesthetics are everything to this couple. If each feels attractive, it acts as a natural aphrodisiac to them and they effort they put into their looks is out of mutual respect for one another. Libra likes it long and languid while Aries has a sense of urgency. Libra female shows Aries male that good things come to those that wait - and exhibit patience. Theirs is a vanilla sex life, however, some squeaky clean kink leaks in. Aries male needs to remember that less is more with Libra female. Her begging off can lead to many marathon sessions and Aries male learning self-control. They share a busy life and fuel each others hunger for experience.
Sextrology states,
"She's searching for an unfussy affair; he appears the perfect unbeholden partner. From the start, it's a power struggle - both are opinionated, if not combative. In bed they make the peace - sex is quiet but may border on kink." Libra female is patient but likes that her patience lifts Aries male up, where they both agree, that he definitely belongs.
Aries Female + Libra Male = The ComplementThis combo is a tad lopsided due to the Libra male being so attracted to a tomboy and Aries female falls into that category. Libra male is partial to natural looking woman, of which Aries female is, and Aries female finds Libra male to be less rugged than her usual tastes call for, but a rarified form of masculinity nonetheless. The Libra male likes to act in tandem with a mate and Aries female is self-motivated enough for him to go with the flow. They see in each other the qualities that they, themselves, fall short of achieving. There is a connection of reciprocal appreciation here and together, they have it all. He's a whiz with words and can cut her to the quick when necessary, which Aries female appreciates.
Sexually speaking, Libra male is one guy who can romance the Aries female stone. He can even reduce her to a pile of emotions. They build the beast with two backs from the get-go. Aries female takes the lead and Libra male goes for the ride. Libra male rolls out his signature style of lovemaking and delivers new sensations to the Aries female. He can overthink it if he's not careful. Aries female lets herself go with Libra male who, at times, plays a statue under the sheets, which allows Aries female to have her way with him. Sex for these two is 99% "effing." She bites and he looks into her eyes and locks on, making sure she stays connected. A little bit of role reversal takes place.
Sextrology states,
"Allies from the outset, sharing a need for sexual freedom and intellectual expression. As a couple, believing themselves an exclusive elite, they have cachet as other buy into the perception. In bed, she's the aggressor." Cosmic Coupling states this couple often bends the rules in this bond and both veer off in their own direction and if not paying attention, can loose touch with their core affection.
Aries Scorpio Cosmic Coupling
Aries Male + Scorpio Female = The RiddleThe tables are turned on Aries in this bond. Though Scorpio female is notoriously a come-hither type, in this pairing she's laying in wait, intent on capture. Aries is oblivious to her tactics and, as such, he thinks the whole thing is his idea. Scorpio female has an icy veneer, and Aries male can't help but view this as a challenge to break through that facade. Aries male tends to view females from a Madonna/whore complex, but Scorpio female blurs that vision of his. Scorpio female can put her man through the ringer, but Aries male doesn't even realize he's being tested when he passes with flying colors. Aries male doesn't realize he's servicing the Scorpio female, even though he is. Scorpio female seeks to manifest a rich existence and a steamy sex life here.
Sexually speaking, Scorpio female is an athlete in bed and Aries male he's plucking a delicate flower, triggering his galiant knight routine. Surprise! Scorpio females sexuality runs deep and she drags Aries male down with her. For him, the sex is mind blowing and Aries learns her emotions are not frozen, but suspended. Aries explores places he's never gone before. Scorpio female does things in bed with Aries male that need to be sworn to secrecy. He may even find his legs flung over her head as she's not squeamish. This relationship rides the hardcore line. Aries male feels psychicly bonded. With her, he can achieve his life's goals.
Sextrology states,
"She seems unattainable, he struggles to win her affection. Blase' in the beginning, she eventually assents to his ardor. Often they have it all, looks, glamour, wealth. Their sex life is enviably active." Scorpio female fancies herself as the perfect female speciman, displays of superiority show. For Aries male, encouraging her to exert self-control - makes it sweeter to strip her of it.
Aries Female + Scorpio Male = The RiteNo man is as instantly alluring to an Aries female as is the Scorpio male. And Sextrology Cosmic Coupling states,
"She makes no bones about making the first move." She can't resist his trademark brooding quality, he's the dark horse she's been looking for. Scorpio male is drawn to the control that this prospect offers as he is wont to dangle himself and tease a lover. Aries female here has no shame as she throws herself onto the Scorpio male, who says he'll oblige. In him, she spies a good lay. Scorpio male feels he and Aries female are using one another. Aries rules Scorpios 6th House of service, so he feels they've picked each other as a habit - which soon, becomes something of an addiction.
Sexually speaking, Scorpio male makes Aries females procreative instincts tingle. She feels he'd make a perfect mother for her children. Many children of this pairing are raised by the Scorpio father whilst Aries female plays the breadwinner. In the boudoir, theres an air of darkness and Aries female finds herself out of her depth. He's very oral and she reciprocates. He teases until she's ready to blow - even though begging for it isn't an Aries female trait. With him, it's all about the build up. Scorpio male has a psychological sway over Aries female and he may make her perform for him. Scorpio male thrills over watching her transformation in this bond and he wants Aries female to become addicted to him as he takes her out of her element. This is one pairing where Aries female surprisingly becomes submissive.
Sextrology states,
"They might not embody each other's ideal, but their similarly defiant natures intrique. A subversive pair with a complicated sexual dynamic - both hot and heavy. In the extreme. Erotic addictions are explored in tandem." Scorpio male digs the "back door" and Aries female may even enter his. Scorpio male should be careful what he wishes for, as Aries might grab the nearest toy and stick it to him.
Aries Sagittarius Cosmic Coupling
Aries Male + Sagittarius Female = The EscapadeThe Aries male is eternally baffled by the Sagittarius female. She operates in a jiggy manner and he is more directional. Of all the women of the zodiac, Sagittarius female has the highest expectations from a man. In Aries male, Sagittarius female sees a man willing to beat out the competition in the game of life and end up in the winner's circle - with her by his side. Sagittarius rules Aries 9th House of second marriages and aspirations, and tends to push him outside his habits and over stumbling blocks. Aries governs Sagittarius's 5th House of love affairs and many times, this bond begins as a affair that leads to committment as each is usually spoken for when it gets off the ground. Sagittarius female is materially extravagant and Aries male may have a hard time satisfying her.
Sexually speaking, Sagittarius female requires daily vivid demonstrations of a lover's appreciation as she feels deserving of it. Aries male finds romance silly while Sagittarius females requirements of adoration remain. In this pair, she'd do well to relax a bit. She's an exhibitionist and mirrors or video cameras may enter the boudoir. Sex is always a major event for Sagittarius female and for Aries male, this is a bit daunting. He seeks to restrain her as an excitement addict. Aries male feels dared a lot in this bond and it rattles his cage. At times, he chickens out as it unnerves the ram. Sagittarius female is a high-strung thoroughbred that offers a thrilling ride to Aries male. She thrashes around as Aries male attempts to restrain her and this fuels her excitement even further. He senses vulnerability underneath which inspires the Aries savior complex.
Sextrology states,
"She's a clear conveyor of sexual messages; he readily acts upon them. Aries and Sagittarius share a body consciousness - fitness is often a fetish. Sex is straightforward and spontaneous, no head trips, but never ho-hum." Sex for these two is a high-low affair that explores X-rated territories. Burnout is something that'll threaten this bond in the long run.
Aries Female + Sagittarius Male = The E'lanUnlike the pairing above, this couple shares a renegade sensibility. Together they are libertines who wish to be unbeholden to convention. Sagittarius male likes to color outside the lines and Aries female likes quality, she won't fence this one in. Sagittarius male exhibits swagger bordering on the unwieldy but Aries appreciates him taking up lots of space as this leaves her free to do her own "exploring" as well. Sagittarius male is an individualist who is focused solely on his own agenda and Aries female has to lasso this one in. She's not looking to tame, just to ride. Sagittarius male is overly materialist and Aries helps him realize that such extravagances distract from his cerebral expansion.
Sexually speaking,
Sagittarius male is out there, diviant to an extent and in youth, has a myriad of experiences, including those with the male species. Any sex to Sagittarius male is good sex. Together, these two can be real players as Aries female likes lots of freedom to do her own exploring, if you know what I mean. Sex for them is a physical affair that may leave bruises. Sagittarius male is bicurious and will have tried same sex interactions at least twice in youth. He enjoys threesomes and group sex situations and so does Aries female. These two are freewheeling together. Their sex life is a full-throttle affair including sweaty private times with piggy elements, usually imparted by Sagittarius male.
Sextrology states,
"Bucking authority, they live way outside of the rules. He's unhurried and askew; she's unbeholden and autonomous. This is a supercouple that easily finds professional success. Sexually, they're exceptionally open-minded." Making the swingers scene, others are half intimidated half expiring with lust. One wonders what's bigger: the size of their egos or their libidos.
Aries Capricorn Cosmic Coupling
Aries Male + Capricorn Female = The CrusadeMars, Aries ruling planet is "exhalted" in the sign of Capricorn, therefore, there's a special connection to this sign. Capricorn female is the one woman in the zodiac that Aries male defers to, if you can believe that. In her, he finds a shrewd advisor and a woman who will not be painted with his chauvenistic brush as Aries male tends to objectify women. However, this is a rare if not fleeting pair and he may tumble here more than anywhere else. Capricorns go for the military thing and in Aries, Capricorn female sees a potential champion. To secure this bond, Aries male must learn to live Capricorns cautious lifestyle and deliberate pace or this pair may drift apart.
Sexually speaking, Capricorn is no man's sex toy, therefore, Aries male needs to change his usual plan of attack here. He won't manhandle Capricorn female like a rag doll. Aries male is a "missionary" man, no doubt, and Capricorn female likes his straightforward sex style. He's a dominator but their varying speeds work well with one another. For her, sex can never be devoid of sentiment and Aries male senses this. They end up the least kinky couple on the astrological block. For Capricorn female, sex can never be devoid of sentiment and Aries senses this. He is instructed to proceed gently. However, Aries male gets antsy with this pace which can trigger a sense of "inadequacy" within him and send him into someone else's arms.
Sextrology states,
"A rare pair. Her unrelenting faith plus his fighting spirit means life is lived like a crusade. Still, independence is their mutual mantra. Sexually, Capricorn female is less hesitant with him. Indeed, she submits to his will." He may have strong feelings for her, but he'll disallow them to surface for fear of undoing him. So, all too often, this great love goes unrequited.
Aries Female + Capricorn Male = The CrossroadsCapricorn male prides himself on being a true lover of women, as long as they fit his vision of the perfect female. But he doesn't immediately recognize those passive qualities in the Aries female, whom he lables as brash and ball busting. To her, Capricorn male seems to be a pompous ass phony. Still, Aries female likes his body and Capricorn male likes her spotlight seeking. The bond begins at a disadvantage but each is drawn to the tension like a moth to the flame. Tension that ultimately builds over time, spilling into the bedroom and becoming increasingly sexual in nature. They don't care about impressing one another and, although they both feel they should avoid one another, they are baffled as to why they can't.
Sexually speaking, Capricorn male smacks of dejection and lets other men fight for the position of alpha-male. He's seeks purity in a woman and feels he'll do better with one who has nothing to compare him to. Enter the sexually unapologetic Aries female to put an end to his skewed sexist vision of women. They feed each other bitter pills as Capricorn male pushes her buttons, too. Aries female wonders why he goes limp when she's aggressive and Capricorn male asks himself,
"Why does she go rigid when I flip her over?" The answer: each wishes the other would approach sex from a new angle rather than from the baggage of the past. In this sexual bond, each faces their issues.
Sextrology states,
"If looking for complication, she'll connect with complex Capricorn man. A messy match - dramatic, chaotic, unclear. Extreme fantasies are comfortably expressed: Gender bending, swapping, or S&M may be status quo." After a lifetime lost in sexual mind games, here Capricorn male must let his body do the work. Aries appreciates his endurance.
Aries Aquarius Cosmic Coupling
Aries Male + Aquarius Female = The AnomalyIn the beginning, an ability to easily communicate facilitates this bond. Aquarius female strikes Aries male as "kooky" while Aries male strikes Aquarius female as "square." She makes the stoic Aries laugh and in her, he is aware of the juicy female she is - a comedic head on a bouncy body. Their discussions deepen over time and he sees Aquarius female marching to the beat of her own drum. She likes the friendship and fears sex would blow it. He wonders the same as his feelings for her may not be reciprocal. Aquarius female can be too eccentric for many and the valiant Aries knight considers rescuing her from relationship oblivion. If this works, Aries males eyes are open to new experiences while Aquarius female benefits from his heavy does of reality.
Sexually speaking, Aquarius female goes for unusual men and Aries male is "normal" to her. Both admit that their first encounter was meant to be a one-night affair and Aries finds himself surprised that this geek-girl is an expert between the sheets. Aquarius female is uninhibited and verbal and she praises Aries male, making him feel like a rock star. She likes peppery, forceful sex and Aries male can oblige there. Eventually, he's wrapped around her finger and she learns that sex is power over men. What was never meant to happen, soon becomes the relationship keeper of the century. He's becomes jealous of her and she becomes sex slave to him.
Sextrology states,
"She retains a strong self-hood; he's emotionally accessed via their association. Intellectual growth is the outcome. Sex is playful and plentiful. There's more pleasure than she'd imagined in the missionary position." As enlightend as Aquarius female is, she sees no problem getting a little piggy about sex. Rarely, thus, will Aries seek a porking on the side here.
Aries Female + Aquarius Male = The AnalogyA rare pairing, love-wise these two don't easily intersect as both parties are rather aloof. Aries needs to make the first move. The Aquarius male is something of the "Nutty Professor" and Aries female is intriqued. In this, she's senses she can lead a parallel life while he's looking for a lady who will drink his Kool-aid and live life in the world of his creation. Aquarius male takes the position of father figure to Aries female. This pair works best when the waterbearer is much older than the ram. Aquarius male plants ideas in her head that she then spreads and vocalizes for him. The danger here is Aries swallowing the entire gospel according to Aquarius. Aries female is a free spirit who will pick up and follow the zodiac's Pied Piper.
Sexually speaking, there are shattered illusions once these two form the beast with two backs. Aquarius male sense Aries female as a force to be reckoned with in the sack and Aries female senses he's cerebral rather than into straightforward shagging. She cannot tolerate an armchair sexual partner. Aquarius male must get out of his eggshell head here and into a full body boinking or she'll quit this wee cult of two. They can get their freak on if he learns to embrace more eccentric components of sex with this unshockable lady. He may even let Aries be free to have another man while he watches. Not all of these bonds are that radical, but if any could "go there" it'll be these two. Rarely is this bond warm and fuzzy. It's either sexless or extremely erotic.
Sextrology states, "
He has a sobering effect; her remote nature mirrors his own. Each inhabits a seperate sphere - the overall effect is either meditative or mismatched. Sexually, they're unrestrained: Limits might be lacking." Mainly, always intense, if these two aren't always lost in bizarro thought, you can bet they're eternally weirding out in bed.
Aries Pisces Cosmic Compatibility
Aries Male + Pisces Female = The ReveriePisces female personifies the Aries male's ideal woman, demure and feminine, if not a tad prissy. They are eternal lovers being associated with Ares and Aphrodite. Pisces female is a bundle of paradoxes and he stumbles in the early stages of this pairing. He is under the spell of this siren and she plants a figment of decency (which has it's dual side, it's a figment, after all) in his imagination. It's a fantasy bubble, but after the honeymoon is over, that bubble may burst. Pisces female pushes the Aries males button and he finds Pisces female to be an escapist that looses herself in substances or over spending. These two need to find ways of keeping the dream alive.
Sexually speaking, the Pisces purity act is a defense mechanism against the Aries males overpowering approach in bed. Pisces female can be bossy in bed and Aries male is forever edging himself back, which makes him want to blow at the more. Pisces female demands major petting and foreplay which frustrates the urgent Aries male. Aries male must learn to let her sexual tension mount - before he mounts her to release his. Pisces female likes to be tormented by pleasure and that takes time. Pisces female isn't all that reciprocal, for she feels that offering herself up is enough for him. Aries male prefers to deliver a good rodgering and can't stick to her strict agenda.
Sextrology states,
"He's found that ultimately demure damsel - few are so willing to be swept off their feet. Subconsciously, she seeks to smother him. Still, they settle into an easy give-and-take. Sex is tender, with oedipal overtones." Pisces female demands sensual, serviceable and strong in the sack. Aries male is forever a student on the first two qualities and in the end, he may prefer sexual relations that impose fewer requirements and caveats.
Aries Female + Pisces Male = The Refuge
Pisces male isn't usually the type of man Aries female goes for. Pisces male can be proper while Aries female shoots from the hip. Aries female makes it clear that she won't be tamed for her energy and Pisces male finds her spikey nature entertaining. Pisces male has a refining effect on Aries female. Pisces male holds up a mirror and helps her to soften her edges as he sets the tone in this relationship. Often, they have shared intellectual interests and the Aries female eventually slowly accepts the Pisces male as Lord if not Savior. Together, they give a graphically mainstream appearance - that is anything but.
Sexually speaking, perverse is part and parcel of this package. Churchgoers by day, and naughty little deviants by night these two can easily fall into "swinger" mode. While there's not much passion, there's plenty of success in an "alternative" lifestyle. Sex swings, dens, collars and sex restriction take the forefront in their games. Aries female is down and dirty and Pisces male grabs her hand to drag her even further into the depths of his dirty little pond. If they do swing, they'll uphold a strict code of ethics while doing so. Pisces male is turned on by seasoned talent and Aries female is one female whose got a past full of experience.
Sextrology states, "
With this ultra-receptive man, Aries female softens, stimulating maternal instincts. He's expected to clean up his emotional act or take his exit. Sex is no simple affair; she wants it long and hard while he's comfortable cuddling." This pair shows the rest of us that's it completely possible to travel to the very reaches of carnal experience - while keeping ones integrity.
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Many thanks to the book Cosmic Coupling: The Sextrology of Relationships written by Starsky and Cox. The above piece contains some of my thoughts along with many excerpts and borrowings from the book. If you don't own a copy of their first book, Sextrology: The Astrology of Sex and the Sexes, I'd advise you have one copy of it somewhere in your house. I consider it the "bible" of astrological profiles. If you've ever wanted to decipher the mysteries of men and women, sex and astrological behavior by sign and gender - this is a must have piece for your collection. Cosmic Coupling, follows up using Sextrology to decipher the mysteries of cosmic pairings.
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